no more sex

[daniellecarter0032]

Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i have been together for 15yrs.the sex had always been incredible. We began incorperating meth into our sex life,and was blown away.lol.that was 10yrs ago. Now a days we dont have sex unless we are high. Have we ruined our sex life.we have discussed this topic and he says its not that he doesnt have the urge its just that he holds out for the big shabang when we get high. I feel like maybe hes not intrested in me sexually unless high. Any advice would help

 

[alasdairm]

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alasdair

 

[llama112]

Have you initiated anything while sober? Maybe if you try something a little different then he may be more interested. It really does depend if you are making a move, etc.

 

[daniellecarter0032]

I havent initiated. If i did we would have a quickie not the marathon sex we usually have.and i really dont thibk a quickie is what he wants. Think he holds out for the marathon sex

 

[Bagseed]

maybe more foreplay and other types of stimulation before penetration?