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Nightclub sex... have you, could you, would you?
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shakra
Bluelighter
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- Dec 26, 2002
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I believe when you get so intimate that you end up fucking then you are sharing a private part of your soul with that person...
Why someone would do this with a complete stranger in a filthy club, (they don't steam clean the place when you leave you know!) is beyond me.
Don't get me wrong, I've had my casual affairs, but usually with someone I knew who was a friend, or a friend of a friend.
I just hope all you girls out there fucking complete strangers are smart enough to demand that they wear condoms!!!!!!!
If you are going to be a slut.. :/ dont be a silly one!
I believe I have my soul mate so I don't have these concerns, but I hate seeing women offer their most powerful possession up for public offer!
HAIL THE POWER OF THE PUSSY!
Hold out a little, and power increases!
Take care of those pink bits chicks!
Why someone would do this with a complete stranger in a filthy club, (they don't steam clean the place when you leave you know!) is beyond me.
Don't get me wrong, I've had my casual affairs, but usually with someone I knew who was a friend, or a friend of a friend.
I just hope all you girls out there fucking complete strangers are smart enough to demand that they wear condoms!!!!!!!
If you are going to be a slut.. :/ dont be a silly one!
I believe I have my soul mate so I don't have these concerns, but I hate seeing women offer their most powerful possession up for public offer!
HAIL THE POWER OF THE PUSSY!
Hold out a little, and power increases!
Take care of those pink bits chicks!
Queen Beat
Bluelighter
If you are going to be a slut..
How very judgemental and self righteous of you. I'm glad you've found your soul mate but not everyone believes in that. Personally I think what you just posted was disrespectful and un-called for.
Let people live exactly how they want to live.
I'm in awe of all the women who have the guts to do it, and it makes for very interesting reading.
Raz
Bluelighter
*Raz gets on soapbox*
I'm with Queen Beat...personally I think sex is what you personally believe it to be. Sex is one of the absolute LEAST intimate ways I can relate to someone, I'm much more choosy about who I kiss.
On the other hand, I can absolutely 100% understand and accept that a lot of people do see sex as something special and something which is a big act of intimacy. And I support people's right to live whichever way they choose.
Being a 'slut' is only a bad thing because of how people choose to see it...in reality, there's nothing wrong with any behaviour which is consensual and doesn't hurt anyone.
Girls in particular cop it heaps when it comes to sexual attitudes, and at the risk of sounding like a feminist parody, that all comes down to the patriarchal idea that men HAVE sex and women have sex DONE to them. If women take the role of being active in pursuing sex, it's seen as wrong by a large portion of our society.
*Raz gets off soapbox.*
OK, that's all, happy new year everyone! :D
[ 30 December 2002: Message edited by: Raz ]
I'm with Queen Beat...personally I think sex is what you personally believe it to be. Sex is one of the absolute LEAST intimate ways I can relate to someone, I'm much more choosy about who I kiss.
On the other hand, I can absolutely 100% understand and accept that a lot of people do see sex as something special and something which is a big act of intimacy. And I support people's right to live whichever way they choose.
Being a 'slut' is only a bad thing because of how people choose to see it...in reality, there's nothing wrong with any behaviour which is consensual and doesn't hurt anyone.
Girls in particular cop it heaps when it comes to sexual attitudes, and at the risk of sounding like a feminist parody, that all comes down to the patriarchal idea that men HAVE sex and women have sex DONE to them. If women take the role of being active in pursuing sex, it's seen as wrong by a large portion of our society.
*Raz gets off soapbox.*
OK, that's all, happy new year everyone! :D
[ 30 December 2002: Message edited by: Raz ]
MOTOMAN
Bluelighter
I done it a few years ago at the Sku Bar with a girl I was seeing.......awesome fun I reckon
belisimo
Bluelighter
stacyrox
Bluelighter
I think by the looks of it the main criticism seems to be from people assuming that this nightclub sex is being had between 2 complete strangers... where, it looks that most people who have posted in here have been having sex with their significant other, not just a random person they picked up during the night..
hopefully that clears some things up
I dont think theres any call for saying that people are slutty or anything just coz they are daring and horny enough to have sex in a public place, if I had the guts to do it I prolly would aswell.. I dont think its fair to degrade people because their idea of fun and sex is different.. like they say, as long as no one is hurt then whats the matter?
stace.
hopefully that clears some things up
I dont think theres any call for saying that people are slutty or anything just coz they are daring and horny enough to have sex in a public place, if I had the guts to do it I prolly would aswell.. I dont think its fair to degrade people because their idea of fun and sex is different.. like they say, as long as no one is hurt then whats the matter?
stace.