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Nice Guys finish last...........always

Originally posted by Pseudo G:
From my experiences, chicks don't neccessarily go for the nice guys, or the not so nice guys. But simply looks. Which ever one looks better. Simple as thatWell if you wanna be that superficial about it, I've seen some hella gorgeous girls with some fucked up looking guys...
I really wish people wouldn't generalise so much...
Originally posted by Blindside:
There's no point over-analysing situations like this, cos there's nothing that can be doneNot true IMO, if you really want something, work for it and you will get it, there is something you can do... It all comes down to how determined you are and how much effort you're willing to put in and how good you are at dealing with failure (and rejection too)
Originally posted by eddi spgeddi:
wisdom and beauty and single*bows towards eddi*
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Pseudo G - your sweeping generalisation is pretty disrespectful.
From my experiences, chicks don't neccessarily go for the nice guys, or the not so nice guys. But simply looks.
I think that if you going to make a comment like that at least admit that both genders can be guilty of the above.
(Or maybe it's cos you're hanging out with chicks instead of girls??)
OK, here's my 2c.
Different people go for different things at different stages of their life.
I fell in love with MY BassJunky over e-mail because he was funny, down to earth and gave me some good advice - ie. he was a nice guy.
*Bass Junky crumbles to floor as Stompr ruins his badass image*
So I guess that puts a new spin on things eh?
(the fact that he's FUCKIN HOT is just a bonus.....*sigh*....)
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Instinctively people are driven to reproduce, and to reproduce with the most suitable genetic material so that their offspring succeed themselves (reproduce again).
Maybe so, but you think that the best sign of someone with "suitable genetic material" is their looks? Your offspring will do much better in life if they inherit intelligence (rather than looks) from their parents, therefore personality should be more appealing than looks if it's all about reproduction.
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Well. Im a nice guy.. So I think. And I certainly have not finished last. I have a hot chicky who loves me. I have a great (and easy) job. I have a great circle of friends.....
Last guys finish last. PFFFFT. People without a set of Kahunas finish last. Stand up and take what you want and stand up for what you believe in. Just don't step on peoples toes on the way up and everything will be sweet.
Oh, people think Im gay too... I dont know why..
*looks at elver*
*goes to the bathroom to 'powder his nose' and signals elver and airwalk to follow*
 
LMAO...I was just reading this thread and had to post...eventhough I feel like an intruder cause im a chick, I just have to say...this thread sounds like either a guys social club or a gay pick up thread?????????
Anyways while im here- on the topic nice guys finish last....always???? I would disagree with that. Basicly because of my experiences in the past and friends I know that are "nice guys" always finish first.
I have a lot of male friends that I would consider as being "VERY nice guys" mainly because they treat me with respect, they are honest and they care about me as a friend...but the only bad thing about these "VERY nice guys" is because they are nice guys they are either married or have girlfriends :(
Ive had pelenty of relationships over the past couple of years, even when I didn't acturly want a relationship...and Ive found that only "bad guys" are attracted to me most of the time...Im guessing this is because "nice guys" are close friends and don't want to distroy a friendship while "bad guys" could not careless and just want to get straght into it and only pretend to be a great friend until they get what they want!
On that note I beleave that most guys would think of me as a "bad girl" and they just cain't handle me!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Gawd, where do I start...
***start rant***
Ok well, I consider myself a 'nice guy', but have recently discovered that nice guys can be arseholes too, given a certain situation/mindset.
I agree with blu - it's all about having the balls to do or say what you really want, and to stick up for yourself in certain situations. I found that because of my lack of them (balls) that I ended up in a situation I wasn't happy with, and ended up hurting someone I cared about without even realising it.
And its not that 'nice guys finish last' at all - it's that 'nice guys don't have enough self-confidence to make a booty-call'. Face it! There's a BIG difference between a relationship and a shag - you have to decide which one you want. You can't go around being 'nice' to get a shag - you might end up in a relationship you didn't really want to get involved in! Believe me - I've done it many times before!!!
This might have already been mentioned, but I've found that girls only go for arseholes if they want to shag. If they want a meaningful relationship, they will hunt out a guy who treats them well and has mutual interests - usually ends up being a nice guy!
SO, what am I trying to say???
Attention all nice guys: Sit back and enjoy the ride. Enjoy being single. If you want booty, go get it. Remember: Slow and steady wins the race. When all those arseholes are married to bitchy women who ride them for everything and anything, you will have someone you love deep down, and vice-versa, someone who respects you, and someone who is probably better-looking than any dumb slut with an arsehole anyway!!!
***end rant***
***begin flames***
My $5.25... Dan :)
 
I hate to say it Dan, but women don't necessarily go for assholes just for a shag, it would be good if this were true though.
Most women have been involved with a bastard who treats them badly. For some bizarre reason, when a person acts like this, it attracts people even more (this can apply to both genders). The good news is, most of us get over this infatuation with so called bad boys after our early 20s or so, what can I say, you wise up.
Also, it has to be said, there's a difference between being a kind, decent person (sorry, but I hate the word 'nice', it irritates me for some reason) and being a whining, spineless person with no self confidence. Again, this is not gender specific.
A little harsh perhaps but bottom line is, no matter what you look like, if you're confident, funny and feel good about yourself, the girls will love you. There's nothing better than someone making you laugh, it works for me every time.
Also, it is a fairly unjust generalisation to say that all good looking guys are bastards and not so good looking guys are wonderful people - *shrugs*. I've seen plenty of mediocre looking guys treat women like shit, just cause they can.
Just a girlies point of view.
 
*sunflower*: Always good to hear a girlies point of view :)
True - VERY true that not all good-looking guys are bastards. I know a few good-looking guys (no - I'm not gay!) who are perfectly decent, honest and down-to-earth. I guess I was generalising about those stereo-typical 'good looking', 'glamorous' types who aren't very 'nice' people. And yes - DEFINATELY applies to both sexes!!!
Also, couldn't agree with you more about the confidence thing. When I was younger, I had BIG self-confidence issues. Since I have grown in confidence, I have found the flow of interested females to be of a higher percentage.
^^^ interesting way of putting huh? ;)
Dan
 
Live my personal(relo)life mate, you'd understand.. Other than that part.... I am quite happy with what ive done, and where im heading.. Thanks for the prop up. :)
Your a legend.. All the time in the world for you :)
Chem
 
Originally posted by Decimal Dan:
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Attention all nice guys: Sit back and enjoy the ride. Enjoy being single. If you want booty, go get it. Remember: Slow and steady wins the race. When all those arseholes are married to bitchy women who ride them for everything and anything, you will have someone you love deep down, and vice-versa, someone who respects you, and someone who is probably better-looking than any dumb slut with an arsehole anyway!!!
***begin flames***
My $5.25... Dan :)
Here here dan. No flame at all. I agree with all that you say. If you are a nice guy, you will most likely be surrounded with great frineds, who would help you anyway you can, and you would be enjoying life.
May I ask, how is that finishing last??
I meet a really nice girl once, and she told me that she had always wanted to meet a nice guy like me. I saw her for a while, but she dumped me. The reasons I think this is because she was a Nth Shore snob, and I lived in Penrith and didn't have a car.
Well, now I live in Annandale, drive a new Suby RS Impreza and have a great career.
From the impresion I get here, is that most nice guys are pretty young. Bide your time, and you will finish out on top.
*Goes back to work before boss catch's me*
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Also, it is a fairly unjust generalisation to say that all good looking guys are bastards and not so good looking guys are wonderful people - *shrugs*. I've seen plenty of mediocre looking guys treat women like shit, just cause they can.
May be so, but generalistions usually have some truth behind them (thats why you can make generalisations).. Theres always gonna be exceptions though..
But in GENERAL terms, often "hot" people get big heads (specially the ones that were "hot" when they were in adolesence), and slip into the whole "jock type" wanker people routine. And yes, i am generalising... I strongly beleive in generalistions. (ie averages) You wonder why i wasn't any good at maths?!?!
Anyway.. Your only ever as nice as other people treat you.. Its all perspective.
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Nice guys don't necessarily finish last, and to claim so seems to be excusing your shortcomings onto others.. While admittedly i don't get much play i'd rather be honest to myself and happy with the fact that i am a relatively nice guy than to be a prick and possibly get a little extra every now and then. be happy with who u r, or do something to change the situation, and that doesn't mean being an asshole to get girls, it may just mean takin a few more risks.
 
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