It's been 3days? or so since our first date. Her name is Rachel, we met in NA. People in the program usually beat other people up about getting in a relationship in the program, they think it's all about a booty call/1night stand. and this is diffrent on such a next level.
In the 12 x 12 it tells you about dating in the program. these relationships can be the best because both man and woman are on the same page, recovery.
Rachel and I's relationship began when we just casually started talking after a meeting one night, and it shot off from there, we have just so much in common! from the music we like, to our family, and intrest's in things we like to do with our time.
I'm still new in relationships, and it's the first i've had while being in the program. I don't want to be like one of the other guys that get's with the new comer girls, which i'm being rediculed of that where I live.
She is such an amazing girl, my little rachel. it's offical now, we are a couple. yeah it's only day 3? but in those 3 days we've learned more about each other, have opened up to each other then with most of our family. we've both told each other stuff that we wouldn'tve told anyone.
Since we are both in the program we don't have to worry about having to do drugs/drink to be able to feel close to one another, shit just happens. and has happened!
We so next leveled the shit!!
Now for sex, I want that moment to be absoutly perferct. I don't want to hurt her in anyway, and have told her that. I think she's the one for me, and building a relationship all on sex will fail, and I don't want it to fail. so sex is the last thing I want from her right now, its more about connecting on a spiritual level so when that time does happen we will both be ready, and really enjoy it, and will be magical.
sofar the past 3 days have been the best days of my life this year (and really all my life). just knowing that I have an awesome lady friend in my life.
We are boyfriend and girlfriend, and hopefully, someday when the time is right she will be my wife..THATS wayy down the road tho lol today is day 4!
love u all
drew
In the 12 x 12 it tells you about dating in the program. these relationships can be the best because both man and woman are on the same page, recovery.
Rachel and I's relationship began when we just casually started talking after a meeting one night, and it shot off from there, we have just so much in common! from the music we like, to our family, and intrest's in things we like to do with our time.
I'm still new in relationships, and it's the first i've had while being in the program. I don't want to be like one of the other guys that get's with the new comer girls, which i'm being rediculed of that where I live.
She is such an amazing girl, my little rachel. it's offical now, we are a couple. yeah it's only day 3? but in those 3 days we've learned more about each other, have opened up to each other then with most of our family. we've both told each other stuff that we wouldn'tve told anyone.
Since we are both in the program we don't have to worry about having to do drugs/drink to be able to feel close to one another, shit just happens. and has happened!
We so next leveled the shit!!
Now for sex, I want that moment to be absoutly perferct. I don't want to hurt her in anyway, and have told her that. I think she's the one for me, and building a relationship all on sex will fail, and I don't want it to fail. so sex is the last thing I want from her right now, its more about connecting on a spiritual level so when that time does happen we will both be ready, and really enjoy it, and will be magical.
sofar the past 3 days have been the best days of my life this year (and really all my life). just knowing that I have an awesome lady friend in my life.
We are boyfriend and girlfriend, and hopefully, someday when the time is right she will be my wife..THATS wayy down the road tho lol today is day 4!
love u all
drew
