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Never had sex....but want to before I turn 28

Hello everyone.

Just to update. I have agreed to do it with a friend of mine, this weekend. We will be going to a Halloween thing, and then after that...lets see what happens. We have been meeting more frequently for coffee, and as I mentioned in one of my posts, he is one of the males that was previously interested in me. So, wish me luck.

Just to clarify. Yes, I have some off hang ups about sex, I was waiting for Mr Right, I just didn't think he would take this long to show up. I am not asexual, and enjoy masturbation, I dont have much of a sex drive these days because of my gabapentin use, but before that started I did do it often.

Thanks for all the replies guys!
 
Hello everyone.

Just to update. I have agreed to do it with a friend of mine, this weekend. We will be going to a Halloween thing, and then after that...lets see what happens. We have been meeting more frequently for coffee, and as I mentioned in one of my posts, he is one of the males that was previously interested in me. So, wish me luck.

Just to clarify. Yes, I have some off hang ups about sex, I was waiting for Mr Right, I just didn't think he would take this long to show up. I am not asexual, and enjoy masturbation, I dont have much of a sex drive these days because of my gabapentin use, but before that started I did do it often.

Thanks for all the replies guys!
 
Hello, OP here...so here is the update for those who are following my story.

We went out to the Halloween do, went back to his and well it happened. He didnt drink at all, but I had a few (and some gabapentin) to help me relax. It stung quite a bit, and it felt weird to be streched that much, but after a while it was okay. I didn't really enjoy it like I thought I would, as in I didn't climax from penetration. But...I have to say, I had a good time over all with regards to how I felt. He was very nice, and even had a cupcake waiting for me to celebrate the first time, which I thought was sweet!

This was not my intention, but we have started to sort of date. he has been my friend for many years, and has expressed an interest but...I wasn't really all that into him.

All that said, , I used a condom but still there is a burn where I pee which is most likely a UTI and caused by the mechanics of sex.

Thank you everyone for the advice, it was intersting to read all your thoughts an opinions. My birthday is but a few weeks away, and I have accomplished my goal. :D
 
EP158207 said:
Hello, OP here...so here is the update for those who are following my story.

We went out to the Halloween do, went back to his and well it happened. He didnt drink at all, but I had a few (and some gabapentin) to help me relax. It stung quite a bit, and it felt weird to be streched that much, but after a while it was okay. I didn't really enjoy it like I thought I would, as in I didn't climax from penetration.
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If you're not the sexual type, why do you take CNS depressors before sex? It's worst then drinking and driving...to drive, you can be half asleep but to have sex, you need to be wired...big time.
 
I'm glad that you had fun, OP.

I've met plenty of girls that don't get off from vaginal sex, but they sure did love head. You should suggest that to your friend next time. Are you finding yourself interested in him now?
 
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