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pookie4binky07

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Hi everyone. My husband and I have played with Ecstasy in the past when we were single and we want to do it one more time together. We don't have any kids or anything and just want to connect on that pure love and joy type way E provides. I know that it was used for marriage therapy in the past and totally understand why. I want this expierence to be like one of those fabulous, extreme breathtaking joy and rapture type rolls. I want to use this experience to connect with my beloved husband in a new breathtaking way. It will just be the two of us alone in our home. I would like some tips on intensifying the high, ways to boost it back up when it starts coming down a little and thing to avoid that bring you down. What are some tips on making this a beautiful, connecting, passionate and breathtaking experience for us??? I know that i am used the word experience a lot but thats because thats what i want this to be, an EXPERIENCE. And adventure of course.I want it to be perfect <3 Thank you so much!
 
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Probably the most important factor in the game is you and your partners' mood. If either one had a bad day and isnt feeling it, reschedule it. If you are both feeling good, then its cool to do it.

Also: make a nice music playlist, perhaps some songs that are very important to you two (music from your wedding for example). And bring up old amazing memories if you two.

Good luck, and hopefully it will be an amazing night.
 
Viktorious basically nailed it, for me (for the home roll connection idea you're going for) it's all about the playlist, i get excited just making it lol, nice mixture of slow and fast, whatever music you're into.

Also, although i know a lot of people don't like eating on md, maybe try helping each other taste some favourite foods, i can't understand the no eating thing, i love it, not a meal i just mean fruit or sweets like starburst, ice lollies etc things you normally enjoy that you can share the heightened experience of. For how to boost it back up when you're coming down, feed off each others' euphoria and maybe try the epically long list of ways to blow each other up, it's around on bluelight somewhere.

Hope you have a great night.

PS Iced water...yes

PPS Just thought, if you've got a decent sized tub, a bath is definitely on the cards, can't imagine a better way to connect (aside from the obvious)
 
Thanks you guys! And as for the tub, we have a big jucuzzi tub and I am planning to fill it up, turn on the jets, off the lights and have the computer going with a light show :-)
 
I bet if you do it once, you will do it more once again afterwards.

Set up your bedroom so that everything is close at hand. Put out coloured lamps and candles if you like.
My partner loves to use her vibrator while she's coming up.
We have massage oil ready so that I can give her a long massage during the roll.
Put extra cushions on the bed. You will probably find many ways of using them creatively.
A music installation in the room is of course essential.
You might also think about how you are going to manage the comedown.
We usually smoke weed together and do sexy things afterwards.
If you have sex, you might want to sniff poppers. Poppers, E and sex is a magic combination.
Enjoy yourselves and each other.
 
My girl and I just had an amazing night at home with some E. Something that she did that we have never done before is give me a long strip tease wearing sexy lingerie to some of our favorite techno hits "techno was amazing because the more upbeat songs kept her BOUNCING around." Never actually getting fully undressed but keeping the tease going. I was able to enjoy myself watching her every once and a while leaning forward to feel her curves and please her as she kept her hips moving. Turning all the lights off except colorful strobe lights really sets the mood. I would recommend having whatever you plan on wearing already on or in an easily accessible place. It took her some time to get dressed since she came up with the idea as we were coming up. Touching always brought the high back up when it would start to drop, smoking weed also helps with keeping the high going, smoking is also nice because you know when your really coming down, because your all of a sudden super baked..

I wish you two luck, my girl and I only roll alone and we love every moment of it, it has brought us so much closer together.
 
My boyfriend and I have enjoyed some amazing nights just the two of us. <3
Make sure you're COMFY! Pillows, soft blankets, etc.
Water (obviously).
Good playlist.
I like to break out the glow sticks and some cool blacklight bubbles (I have a black light LOL). Put on some cool lights. Put up some cool posters.
Massages together. Showers together.
Sexy lingerie is fun ;) We have only had sex on M a couple times. Oral and kissing and hugging is so much more fun, at least we both think so.
A nice scent as well. We usually have incense. Keep a close eye on it though!
We enjoy ketamine OR GHB to keep the high going. Lately, we've been using K instead. G is more relaxing and sexual, :p. But NEVER mix K and G.

Mmmm :)
 
Well my absolute best time with me and my spouse rolling has been at the beach. It was actually one of the best days of our lives. One of the first times I did not roll at a rave. We both popped 2 pills and had a close friend be a designated driver to take us to the beach. Once we got to the beach we played some house music and just hugged each other looking at the sunset and feeling the amazing wet sand on our feet and the breeze against our faces. It was my best roll ever. Sex can always come later ... that bonding and cuddling feeling is the best.. Sex can come later for when the e has starting comming down. I can barley get hard when im peaking or rolling hard. but a very nice sex time after the peak is over can happen. kinda hard to cum tho
 
Agree with Viktorious. :) Other than that, I recommend good music, a calm, peaceful environment, etc. Have fun, I think a lot of marriages would be so much healthier if couples did MDMA together every now and again. ;)
 
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