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Im going to try to make this as short as possible.
A little back story leading up to this point.
I started dating a girl last year, we had been bestfriends for 9 years, i used to take her home after school, etc. We got in an argument senior year and I hadn't seen her until last year when we reconnected and started dating. Everything was great as far as our relationship went, but in hindsight I can now see the signs of heroin addiction. I had no idea until she got kicked out of her house in December. Pretty much I haven't seen her since December 5th, Shes called me a few times, and the last time we talked she told me she loved me, that she always had loved me but feared it would ruin our friendship, and that I was her rock, her reason to be clean, and the best friend she had ever had. She asked me if I thought we had another chance and I told her of course. As long as she is working to turn her life around, I will be here to support her.
So as of right now, she is 8 months clean and sober, has completed a 30 day drug program, she put me on her drug test release to prove shes sober, and is back at home with her parents. I keep in touch with her mother, and I have asked her to give me a call or something cause id love to hear from her. She will relay messages to me through her mother but so far hasn't called me directly. Ive done a lot of research since all this happened and I know shes under a lot of changes, and needs time and space, but I love this girl and dont want to lose her from my life. I want to be there for her to support and encourage her and help her through this.
I guess what Im asking is if anyone can help me understand what might be going through her mind right now, what shes going through, what she might be thinking. I just feel so out of the loop and confused.
A little back story leading up to this point.
I started dating a girl last year, we had been bestfriends for 9 years, i used to take her home after school, etc. We got in an argument senior year and I hadn't seen her until last year when we reconnected and started dating. Everything was great as far as our relationship went, but in hindsight I can now see the signs of heroin addiction. I had no idea until she got kicked out of her house in December. Pretty much I haven't seen her since December 5th, Shes called me a few times, and the last time we talked she told me she loved me, that she always had loved me but feared it would ruin our friendship, and that I was her rock, her reason to be clean, and the best friend she had ever had. She asked me if I thought we had another chance and I told her of course. As long as she is working to turn her life around, I will be here to support her.
So as of right now, she is 8 months clean and sober, has completed a 30 day drug program, she put me on her drug test release to prove shes sober, and is back at home with her parents. I keep in touch with her mother, and I have asked her to give me a call or something cause id love to hear from her. She will relay messages to me through her mother but so far hasn't called me directly. Ive done a lot of research since all this happened and I know shes under a lot of changes, and needs time and space, but I love this girl and dont want to lose her from my life. I want to be there for her to support and encourage her and help her through this.
I guess what Im asking is if anyone can help me understand what might be going through her mind right now, what shes going through, what she might be thinking. I just feel so out of the loop and confused.