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DOB

DOB

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hey,can u post some picture of some man u consider most attractive? I mean body,since I cant change my ugly face...

i ask cuz I noticed theres alot different ways guys build their body.. lean and aesthethic? bear mode powerlifter strongman?? skinny ripped teen??

personaly I dont care much about bodyfat as long as I am not over 28% bodyfat,and I build for maximum strenght,but I have little beer gut and I think 10/10 girls would rather choose some skinny weak but ripped beiber over me

examples
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I think that you will find that there are as many different preferences as there are body types. Why don't you work on your personality first?
 
In my experience is all depends on what kind of person you are wanting to attract? I'm not a super sexy man by all means, I'm an average bloke, go up and down in body weight but have never had a REAL problem finding a woman. But I've been told I have a winning personality and I smile constantly which is attractive apparently...

What kind of person are you hoping to be drawn to you?
 
everyone says i am a very hot boy...

but ive never really been on a date before or had a GF and im 21

so looks dont matter if you dont have the confidence

if you exercise every day and do things that improve your self-confidence then it will have a greater effect
 
Not a female, but it's all about your confidence. If you don't have it, fake it till you get some. You'll find girls who are attracted to your body type, whatever it is, especially if you work out. Just be yourself. A beer gut can be totally offset by confidence. If your first choice at a party/bar/club doesn't respond to you (for your body type or any other reason), go on to your second choice, then third, and so on. If you obsess about not having the Bieber body you're going to drive yourself crazy.
 
just go work out or something....<snip>
 
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i like that there wasnt single direct answer to my question,I dont need tips how to get girls,I am just curious what women here on BL l like and dont tell me everybody likes different taste,I didnt came out of cave yesterday lol I just want single opinion,YOURS!
 
I like the first pic the best. I'm not into big huge body builder muscles, it grosses me out a little actually. I used to actually be into skinny guys - like think punk rock guys, Sid Vicious ect - skinny and not even much muscles. But I've grown out of that and now I like a decent body, especially arms. Nicely muscled arms are incredibly sexy.
 
Don't like any of those pictures tbh!

I'm very variable in my taste in men. Had several guys with lots of muscles, some skinny ones, some average. The only body type I can honestly say doesn't do anything for me is big and chubby or "bear" types, maybe because I'm only a 5ft petite lady and don't want to be crushed! But I find that when I've had one body type (or even ethnicity) for too long I crave something different. I always find it fascinating how different bodies feel lying next to mine when we sleep, how the limbs fit together. It's also funny I don't like too much chub because even though I'm small - UK size 8/US size 6 - I'm pretty curvy/pear shaped, yet I often attract skinny ones. Sorry about the lack of direct response - but body builder types are a definite turn off for me... I guess I'd settle for Mr Depp:

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DOB said:
i like that there wasnt single direct answer to my question,I dont need tips how to get girls,I am just curious what women here on BL l like and dont tell me everybody likes different taste,I didnt came out of cave yesterday lol I just want single opinion,YOURS!
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They were trying to help you and this is what they get?

If you didn't need help getting women, you wouldn't be asking this question.
 
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