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Naughty sex.

lxxia

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I just need any ideas or advice on my sex life right now. So im 23 female I have two kids I first started having sex at 16. Just because I have children doesnt mean im all that experienced I think. Ive been seperated from the father of my children for two years now and started seeing someone for a couple of months now I actually know him since high school. Long story short I really just want to have amazing sex with him something naughty something that he can think of all the time. He is good as far as size and we usually kiss and stuff when we have sex and I love that I just want tale it up a notch. Ive gave him head hes ate me out ive sucked his balls ive kissed him almost everywhere on his upper body ive showered with him and just recently weve had anal sex which was good after lots of lube . Our sex routine usually consists of were cuddling im kissing his neck and hes touching my breast and i go down on him he takes my pants off and then he says ride me I get on top and we both cum and thats that. I dont always expect it to be nasty and dirty but I just need some ideas to make it hot juicy wet nasty and good like real good. Thanks.
 
Best advice I can give you from a male standpoint would be to talk to him about it first. Don't just spring it on him one night before (or during) the deed. This way you can both talk about your boundaries and there would be much less performance anxiety. Do research into positions, techniques and other options together and be open about your fantasies. You don't have to do all this and then act on it right away, you can leave it for a couple of days and be a little spontaneous, as long as you both know what you're looking for.
 
Best advice I can give you from a male standpoint would be to talk to him about it first. Don't just spring it on him one night before (or during) the deed. This way you can both talk about your boundaries and there would be much less performance anxiety. Do research into positions, techniques and other options together and be open about your fantasies. You don't have to do all this and then act on it right away, you can leave it for a couple of days and be a little spontaneous, as long as you both know what you're looking for.


Thank you. You are right I really have to find out what he likes and what he doesnt like.
 
I would definitely go for trying more positions. Guys are very visual in sex and different positions will give them another perspective.
Also try making love in different places in your house, the bathroom, kitchen...I get supper excited trying in public bathrooms...

Make love and though you were dancing, your body is your instrument so play some sexy music. ;)
 
talk to him :) perhaps something in the lines of what you described in your first post you want to do to/with him :)

i bet even the talk alone can be quite exciting if you keep things playful and open...

but also, dont go all out from the beginning. make him want the acts he craves a little bit. just because he wants something and you want to give back doesnt mean it has to happen now and fast! :P creating desire and expectation can be quite arousing for the both of you
 
Boston Steamer without prior notice - He will never stop thinking about it :D. If you want to spice up your sex life without breaking your taboo's etc then txt sex, phone sex building upto the event then take it s - l - o -w.

Have you watched porn together - do you see something that he likes that you can replicate easily? Maybe a sexy outfit / dressing up / role play etc
 
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