What's a good natural/herbal (i.e.) legal or usually legal product that calms you down heaps?
(For either recreational relaxation, or dealing with medical/psychological problems)
In social situations, i can get quite phobic at times and so as a result im quite a heavy drinker (but only when i go out, not like during the day etc)
Im also petrified of public speaking and really need some drugs to help me out. (for presentations, and job interviews etc)
Im reading a self help book so im already partly dealing with the physcological side of it. I know the chemical side of my body plays a large role in my problem, because say for example i haven't eaten anything all day, i will be a LOT more anxious and uncomfortable etc. (hypoglycemic i suppose)
But a full stomache still doesn't get me right so i want something more.
Ive been doing a bit of browsing around websites which sell this sort of stuff and ive found a few things:
-Kava (i used to think it was illegal to import in oz, but i found an australian websites selling it

it's just restricted or something)
- Herbal pills, like those ones from amsterdam, lounge-e
- Valerian
I don't smoke, but wouldn't mind smoking some herbs for a bit of relaxing fun...like maybe
- Passion Flower
- Lions Tail
- but i don't think you can get Kratom in australia
So what are your opinions on the ones i mentioned, or do you have any better suggestions?
thanx heaps