NASADD Social - The lair of Charlie Sheen

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ohline said:
as i said before.. if you're legitimately trying to get sober you should not be in a relationship.

if you're trying to to get sober and your girl is wanting to use, as well, you should not be in a relationship.

i don't know of any couple that has lasted through drug (heroin specifically) abuse.


you need to work on you, bro. she should not be priority over yourself.
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but i feel that without her, i would want to and would probably use more
 
HighonLife said:
1st ever

and my argument was, dont use dope, u have no tolerance and have no idea what potency ur getting i walso would have no idea how much dope to give to a total noob, so i said if id do it, id get her some Oxys or some dillys and that it is close enough and atleast she would know that 20mg of Oxy should get her rocked n 4mg of dilaudid should do the same and she was kool with that, its not necessarily heroin she wants to try she just wants to nod like i was, but she doesnt want to use vicodin, i suggested vicodin n she wasnt interested

but regardless, even if it was T3s i dont wanna be the one to start her down my path

and yea, if she is gonna do it i want her to do it with me, but she said that would be like a slap in the face to me b/c im suppossed to be clean but imo i would rather relapse then have her use without me

but on the same token, i dont want her to use at all,

but on the other hand, she doesnt want me to use at all n i still did it :\

tough situation
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like someone else said, if she is gonna do it, she is gonna do it. if she is THAT curious she will find a way, but you dont have to be the one to stear her down that path. she may find it too difficult to find and give up. yeah, if you introduce her to it she might not get hooked but that is just too big of a chance.
 
MemphisX3 said:
1. what a hypocrit. make sure she knows she cant get on your case about getting high if she is going to constantly badger you about getting her some dope.

2. fuck no, i say again FUCK NO. thats just me. i have been thru this situation before (more than once) while it would be awesome to indulge in some dope with her (for me it was a garantee to fuck everytime) but fuck that noise. the amount of guilt i felt was not anywhere close to worth it.
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thank you memphis, i wanted ur opinion specifically


also though, just to clarify things, since i have such a hard time wrapping my mind around never using opiates again i have already predetermined that i will use once every 6 months soo im waiting till Aug 18 and i think this is prob when she will want to get high, she isnt necessarily askin me to go see the dope man but not buy nething for myself,

also she is content not using H but it really doesnt matter to me if its Oxy Dilly or H its pretty much all the same
 
HighonLife said:
but i feel that without her, i would want to and would probably use more
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because addiction breeds co-dependency.


i mean, if she stops you from using.. great! but do not allow her to use. once that happens, it's over (in my opinion). i don't know of anyone who has been genuinely curious about h, tried it, and not loved it. couple that with the guilt you'll have and it's not even close to worth it.


she's your heroin, man. that's not exactly healthy either. ;/

i'm not trying to offend you, i just want you to be okay. <3
 
I've been thinking about this for the last several minutes and something seems odd, her reason for wanting to try opiates is exclusively from watching you nod out and speak relatively incoherently??

As I said before, she's gonna do it if she wants to do it but you should at least make her aware of the possible ramifications on your relationship and sobriety. She doesn't really seem to understand the severity of the situation if she is asking you to get her high.
 
just as long as you understand that she can't fix you.


but bro, assigning a day every six months to use? knowing that she's going to want to, also? there doesn't seem to be anything to indicate that's at all a good idea. :/
 
purplefirefly said:
I've been thinking about this for the last several minutes and something seems odd, her reason for wanting to try opiates is exclusively from watching you nod out and speak relatively incoherently??

As I said before, she's gonna do it if she wants to do it but you should at least make her aware of the possible ramifications on your relationship and sobriety. She doesn't really seem to understand the severity of the situation if she is asking you to get her high.
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yea, she said even though she was soo mad at me she said i looked like i was in heaven

but she has seen me in hell too
 
alright yall, i really appreciate yall listenin to me n given me some good feedback, much appreciated, im off to work tho,

yall take care

and let the lulz commense, by the way ohline, i was reading thru the social earlier today whilst takin my morning poop (yep, im regular again ) and your toyotathon comment actually hurt me laughing whilst poopin, just so you know
 
HighonLife said:
alright yall, i really appreciate yall listenin to me n given me some good feedback, much appreciated, im off to work tho,

yall take care

and let the lulz commense, by the way ohline, i was reading thru the social earlier today whilst takin my morning poop (yep, im regular again ) and your toyotathon comment actually hurt me laughing whilst poopin, just so you know
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the fact that i was on someone's mind while they were pooping is the highlight of my week <3
 
ohline said:
as i said before.. if you're legitimately trying to get sober you should not be in a relationship.

if you're trying to to get sober and your girl is wanting to use, as well, you should not be in a relationship.

i don't know of any couple that has lasted through drug (heroin specifically) abuse.


you need to work on you, bro. she should not be priority over yourself.
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+1

I'm thinkin this is a right of passage for junkie scum like us. Seems like most of us will or already have had the "drug fueled relationship". It'll be fun for a while anyways.
 
Johnny blue said:
+1

I'm thinkin this is a right of passage for junkie scum like us. Seems like most of us will or already have had the "drug fueled relationship". It'll be fun for a while anyways.
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i know, right?

mine lasted about 5 years. only the first two were fun. after those two years the whole "partners in crime" shit became way too real.

those two years were fucking awesome, though ;D
 
Shit, I've never had my "drug fueled relationship" but I have had an incredibly alcoholic relationship which I guess sort of counts. And binge I hear you there, coke seems like it would make a much more intense/ exciting drug rampage relationship.
 
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