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Kaori

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Basically, I had to stay at hers for a while until the council could find me a room. It's for personal reasons, so I won't delve into that.

Anyway, my sister has been acting odd for a long time, and had 4 kids removed through social workers and the court in Edinburgh, Scotland. Her children don't all have the same dad either, and I once overheard a discussion she took part in, where she made excuses about why using protective sexual measures was "not suitable" for her. So she has more or less brought this commotion on herself.

But over the last several years, I witnessed her behaving in a very weird manner. Like when we were out and about, she claimed people were spying on her, like up at the Rockstar venue on Holyrood Road, or that random strangers were somehow being put in places to serve as plants, and making out a person was observing her from behind a random window at a street we were at while we sat on a bench.

Oh, and if she heard a car screeching, she was practically assuming they were a spy too, in a hurry to get away, and she spoke of how particular taxi services knew her whereabouts.

Last year, I added my bank card to Smarty on a profile she set up, so she could get mobile data as like a one off payment, but then she made out she could not access the email account. I felt it was a lie, and she often said somebody was spying on her online with a green dot, and needed a private network "not on Wi-Fi" (or something to that effect). What she was babbling about, really didn't add up at all.

She cut my older sister off years ago. But recently, I lodged at her house. Our mum passed away 3 years ago, so I think the house is in her name, and my dad is there as well.

For like 6 years by this point, the two of them have had a cat locked up in a dirty cage. I am not joking. And I recently asked about getting my large collection of horror Blu-rays and DVDs. Most of them are stored in these underbed type plastic boxes, but she made out she used these wet wipes on them because of mice leaving droppings in my prior flat. My things are being kept in the loft, but you need to climb up a ladder.

Not long ago, however, she accused me of collaborating with people like my sister to steal a few phones she cannot find. That isn't something I would ever do. But she threatens me if I come near the door.

Yeah. She has flipped. But what can I do to get my belongings? The police and lawyers I ring up claim they cannot help.
 
They don't have an active landline because they didn't keep up the bills with the phone and their broadband, and he wasn't happy that I moved a box in my mum's old bedroom. So he apparently sided with my sister. She said that he told her if he found out I had touched anything else, I'd be out on my ass, basically.

You should have seen the state of the room I was lodging in. Half the bed I had to lay in had clutter strewn about on one side of the bed, and the whole house is very humid. They don't have net curtains up. There is junk strewn about everywhere, and the rim of the toilets were filthy. It really is a disgrace.

Her crazy chatter never ceases. She goes on about a shadow on the wall being the ghost of our late mum. She pays a so-called spiritist online for sessions of mediumship.

This is very dangerous, as well as deceitful. She actually had these demonic things present in this accommodation she was living in years ago. I know this, because she showed me pictures with multiple ghostly figures that had red eyes and they looked sinister. But she made up a story about a previous tenant being into that sort of thing. This was incredibly bizarre, and I know she has attended meetings with mediums before.

A priest had to come with some other people and do an exorcism. Since then, she has been harping on about keys going missing, claiming a ghost has access to her belongings when she isn't there, and keeps on saying our mum touches her hair, or that the police attend certain roads because they "know she is going to be there" that day. And so on.

I'm not surprised the social had her bairns removed. Just from reading this, if you seen the way she is always acting around myself, you'd certainly agree that she's not in a fit state for caring for any children, let alone herself.

She needs support. But people with mental issues seldomly see genuine sense. They normally think if you try to give them advice or seek help for their best interests, you're not a team player. They think you are trying to set them up.

I feel like I have done my best to help her. Even frequently chummed her out to shops and her GP, where I had to remind her that carrying heavy bags is not good for her health, since she has these growths near her spine that doctors had to warn her about.

This nonsense has all came at a pretty bad time, too. I am homeless, so the council has me bidding on flats every week, with some sort of priority points. It may be ages yet before I am offered permanent housing, so I really didn't need this ridiculous drama making me feel bad.
 
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