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My SEX Addiction has been replaced by an OPIATE Addiction, Which is better?

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Greenlighter
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Hey everyone. I am a 24yo Female.
After starting a few threads over here regarding opiates and sex-drive interfering I came to a realization.

All the way from 15yo till 13yo I was a sex addict. It was pretty extreme. As a kid my dream was to become a stripper or an international Courtesan and i dreamed of the world to stop for one week so i can sleep with everyone in my school and when the week would pass everyone would have the memory of it erased so mi don't get a reputation of a slut.
I basically had a mind of a Guy i would bring new guys over to my apartment for sex constantly, and i would always try to kick them out before the sun goes up as the last thing i would want is spending time with some guy in a romantic atmosphere.
By the age of 22 i realized that its an issue, a condition and that i had serious sex addiction. I would sometimes get up in the middle of my sleep and go outside just to hope to find some hottie to hook up with.

But here is what happened later. My ex bf introduced me to Heroin. At first it made my sex life elevated, we had completely free sex. No barriers, no rules, no limits. But eventually week by week my sex drive went down and down and down and down.... Now i am at the point where i haven't had sex for 6 months straight. And i don't feel like having any. I don't want to be touched, kissed or even looked at sexually.
I feel satisfied by opiates. I am happy just laying there and doing absolutely nothing...

Now I'm sure many of you experienced this. Have you?
The question that has been bothering me later is this:

%) - Which addiction is safer?
:\ - Which one is worth it?
:! - And why cant i have both of them existing at the same time damn it?
 
I find it funny that you can get STDs from banging and from banging. ;)

Anyways this type of thread belongs in Sex, Love & Relationships.

OD >>> SLR
 
I don't think either is safer?

I'm a little lost on the timeline here:

You were a sex addict from 15 to 13? So, you age in reverse? Also, when did you have your first apartment?

Oh, wait a minute. You were probably a sex addict from 15 to 23. You realized it by 22.

Hmmmmm... I think you may be asking how you can have a sex drive and also be on the nod?

I think you already know that in your case, right now, you can not.

It may be in your best interest to consider the definition of addiction. An addiction, any addiction, is inherently negative.

:)
 
a sex addict at 13, and sue lyon as dolores haze for an avatar. not that dolores haze was ever a sex addict.
 
I've never seen a sex addict lose every possession and loved one they've ever had, and end up living in squats with the scum of society just so they could satisfy their addiction.

Heroin however, that's EXACTLY where I've seen some good friends end up. Sure not everyone who does it ends up that way, but a lot do.


Quit the smack and get shagging again. I dont know a lot about full blown sex addiction, but is there some sort of legitimate treatment you could get for it? Heroin is a terrible path to go down. Avoid it at all costs.
 
Is any kind of addiction good? My personal practice for myself is everything in moderation. At least I try to keep it all in moderation. :)
 
Noodle said:
I don't think either is safer?

I'm a little lost on the timeline here:

You were a sex addict from 15 to 13? So, you age in reverse? Also, when did you have your first apartment?

Oh, wait a minute. You were probably a sex addict from 15 to 23. You realized it by 22.

:)
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ha ha :)

IS that you Benjamin Button?



...oh dear, the lowest form of wit, apparently...tut tut
 
There both bad,. since u have just started, the consequences of heroin addiction are not there yet…


also once it gets very expensive, most likely you will have sex to pay for it. So you're back to square one.


at least with sex addiction it's free, but you can get STD if you're not careful..

there'll also health risk with opiates to..

For me Opiate addiction was better, since the feeling last longer than sex.

But with sex addiction, if you have a boyfriend who has a high sex drive, you don't have anything to worry about..

Also the lifestyle of heroin is harsh to,

also heroin addiction messes with your mind to.
 
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My inner psychoanalyst says you used sex as a replacement for something you were missing all your life, or as a way to cover up some emotional pain, and the heroin is fulfilling the same role, so to tackle your problem we will need to know more about what your life was like, your home life etc.

I mean, your lifelong ambitions sound a bit fucked up tbh.

Psychoanalysts are full of shit though.
 
In the big scheme of things an addiction is an addiction, but IMO an opiate addiction is worse.

I dnt really feel like goin into detail rite now but u shud watch Choke
 
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attempt4 said:
I just wanted to point out the inherent bullshit in this comment.
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LOL I used to say that when I was younger and didn't give a shit. You're right, though. I think it's a comment made by lots of younger girls who think the guys look at them like "one of the guys" and cooler than all the other girls until they realize the guys want to just fuck them too. LOL
 
Obviously she meant 23, not 13...

Keep in mind, this is coming from someone who has never tried opiates and doesn't have any desire to do so...

1. Sex is safer in the long-run, as long as you take measures to protect against STDs.

2. Again, I would say the sex is more "worth it". With opiates, you build up tolerance over time. If you do the swinger thing, at least you get a good bit of variety with each sex experience. :p

3. Practice moderation. Do both at the same time? Beats me.

The "sex with the whole school" sounds like a good porno plot btw. Capitalize off that xD

ALSO - The Psychedelic Discussion board might have some innovative ideas on overcoming addiction, haha. But do your own research and decide for yourself.
 
Lysis said:
Is any kind of addiction good? My personal practice for myself is everything in moderation. At least I try to keep it all in moderation. :)
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everything in moderation, including moderation. THATS a motto :D although i dont see how a heroin addiction can be kept in "moderation".... its fairly the kinda thing which you do all the time, or not at all.
 
Why not both? Just joking ;) . I thought everybody was addicted to sex but i guess there are extremes. So yeah as a person who has a opiate addiction id say a opiate addiction is far fucking worse. Being junk sick all night praying for the morning to come is not fun at all.

So as said above everything in moderation including moderation
 
It's funny that this should come up, or, not exactly funny, but I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I think that part of the reason for why I enjoy opiates so much is that they do suppress my sexual appetite. It's just that, in the past, I've had difficulty staying faithful to one partner because of how much I loved beautiful women and having sex with all different beautiful women. I don't have that problem anymore, and it's thanks to opiates, really... sad, but I think that it's true, or, at least in part.
 
IMHO, I think the sex addiction is worse.

I think the point where an addiction is the worst is where it stops just affecting the 'user,' and it starts to effect everyone around them negatively as well. With heroin (or other drugs), one has the ability to use and possibly maintain their addiction without negatively affecting anyone around them (although there are hundreds of exceptions to this, especially if one is using needles and shares them ) but when it comes to sexual addiction, a trait of this is wreckless/careless behaviour ie: no condoms, sex with strangers, multiple partners, lack of getting tested - making it easier to effect other people's lives negatively by passing on incurable STD's, the worst one being HIV/AIDS.

Actually, after typing that, I suppose that they are really just equally as bad. Just depends upon the specific person and circumstances, I guess.
 
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