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My relationship is like a rollercoaster. Is it normal to feel this way?

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BluLait said:
Damn, she really is a bitch then. How could I have been so blind...
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Harsh feelings now eh?

It just seems like you two aren't right for each other. That doesn't mean you're a bad person, it doesn't mean she's a bad person. It just means you aren't right for each other. Yeah, she has a lot of problems. I hope she goes to see a therapist about this. It seems like she isn't really mature enough for a relationship as well. She's young. She's still acting like an immature teenager. You're probably looking for someone at least a bit more mature. Maybe look for someone around your own age - with less baggage! :) You seem like a pretty good guy, optimistic too, so stay optimistic - you'll find someone! :)
 
Well, I can say that this forum is a lifesaver. Both for drugs and relationships. If it wasn't for you people, I would have never had the strength to end this crap. It's been a day since I haven't talked to her and I'm happier like this than I have been for 3 months now.

If she calls, should I just talk to her and explain that it's really over? She has a great skill at making me feel really guilty and I don't know how I will react. She probably still hopes of getting back together so I wouldn't like to let her keep thinking this way... I'm thinking, at least I owe it to her to answer and be truthul rather than ignore her calls like a coward.
 
Dude just stop answering. Seriously this girl is crazy and loves to turn her insecurities around on you. Its not worth it man. People who love each other don't treat each other like that.

Fuck ANYONE who guilt trips you.
 
If she calls don't answer. No offense but my impression is you'd probably end up getting back together with her if you guys talk :/ you've done enough, she needs to start dealing with her issues without you.
 
Aight....I made a promise to myself, in the middle of my second mdma trip, I said that I wouldn't let anyone, no matter who they are, take advantage/use me. You can either stand out in the crowd or fade in the darkness... It's your choice. You only have one life and I promised myself I would make the best of it. In the end, you are the most important person in the world, and nobody deserves more love than yourself (maybe your kids, but that's not important right now). No matter what it costs, I won't let anybody step over me. I am nobody's tool. I should respect that promise.
 
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Stay strong, bro. Go someplace tonight and treat yourself. Then you won't be there if she comes knocking on the door.
Don't give in and answer her phonecalls either. This girl will figure it out that it's for the best or find another victim.
 
Victim? That sounds a bit harsh lol.

It's not like she's the Grim Reaper haha
I don't think she does this on purpose... really... it's just she's got issues.
 
I'm happy to hear you feel like the issue is resolved and I definitely think you made the right choice. Going to close the thread now, PM me if you want it re-opened :)
 
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