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My husband is addicted

Christina0007 said:
Why ?( I love him and he loves me I think 🤔
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Sometimes unfortunately love isn’t enough. If you do decide to get help for your situation like I said abused women’s shelter and verbal abuse is abuse. We will be here supporting you every step of the way. They can help you get your own place. I’d call around for you but I can’t.

And I don’t want to take away YOUR power. You do have the power to change your circumstances.
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And I honestly don’t think he loves you at least not now but idk. Just wouldn’t intentionally hurt my SO by actively trying to cheat in front of them.
 
Christina0007 said:
I know . Im not deserve rude and hurt words from him
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They have a term for that Psychological and emotional abuse. And I know and you, and indeed you don´t deserve it.

Its a felony only harder to prove then physical or sexual abuse. But the outcome for the victim is more or less the same PTSD.


Take that advice of Juicewrldfan and check if you in your current situation, asylum seeker, a woman shelter still can help you out.
 
Porn can stimulate the same endorphins in the brain as many other drugs. It is also accessible and affordable. Usually porn addicts have a past totally void of porn and substitute porn for another time in life. Type of porn , style etc can give you an insight but it's a complicated and real addiction
 
stupotmc said:
Porn can stimulate the same endorphins in the brain as many other drugs. It is also accessible and affordable. Usually porn addicts have a past totally void of porn and substitute porn for another time in life. Type of porn , style etc can give you an insight but it's a complicated and real addiction
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True but it’s just porn. It’s the abuse that I would have issue with if I were her.
 
Hey there. I just wanted to check in and see how you are today !! Are you staying calm doing alright now ? Well I hope that your day went well.

I went for a walk today and took a couple of the dogs. I went out to the Lake but didn't stay too long. Everyone takes their dogs out there too so it

was just a real quick trip to let the them run for a bit. It was nice and quiet and kind of cool outside but after the sun drops it gets really really cold.

So what have you been doing ! I have been trying to take it easy whenever I can. I had some good food today but that was about it. Lol.

I hope that you are alright and that everything can get better. I hope that you can find good people out there. What did you have for dinner.

I just had mashed potatoes, lool !! :)
 
Christina0007 said:
Hello! I really need your advice! My husband is addicted to drugs (ice) and alcohol. It's very hard for me. I'm afraid to say the wrong thing every time because he has anger issues and we often fight. Overall, he's a very nice guy, he loves me, but sometimes I don't recognize him. He wants to stop drugs and alcohol for me, but every time we go back to where we started. One day, a week ago, he hurt my heart very much, he started looking for girls on a dating app in front of me and was even going to go to one of them to have sex. To the question of why, "I just want it that way." Before that, there was a case in the car, he accelerated very much. I wanted to call his father, but he said if I did he would kill us. I was very scared, he was drunk. I love him, but I'm afraid it will never end. What should I do? Run away? Or support him to the end? God, I have so many thoughts and questions. I do not know where to go, I am very dependent on him right now. I'm in a foreign country, alone. I have nowhere to live. I'm so scared sometimes.
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You cannot stay in the relationship. If you're a US citizen, you can go to the US embassy in any country and ask for protection. Sometimes they'll even put you on a flight back to the states.

If you're not a u.s citizen. Other countries often do the same thing for theirs. You need to contact the consulate or the embassy of your nation.

If he's looking for chicks to have sex with in front of you, he's either already had sex outside your marriage or he's getting ready to which exposes you to sexually transmitted diseases.

No way that you can reason with people in the midst of full-blown addiction.
 
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