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My GF maybe wants to try BK-MDMA

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Bone14

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Hi there.

First of all, if this should be placed in ecstasy discussion thread then sorry!

I have recently opened up to my girlfriend about my drug use, at first she freaked out a little bit and was very worried, but she seems more calm and okay with it now. A night on the way home, the conversation went on the drugs and which one I've tried and she was very interested in my experiences and i told her about methylone and told her it was my favorite.

So she asked, if I should try anything what should it be? I asked her what she was chasing and she answared she wasn't interested in psychedelics because she once had an eating-disorder and was afraid of it would rip up bad feelings again. So methylone sounded like a good and mild drug she would like to try together with me.

But we haven't talked about it since, and I got 2g of BK-MDMA lying and would just love to try it with her. Should I bring up the subject again? Or do you think she was just buzzed a little from the alcohol?
 
IMO, I'd say to bring the topic up again and if she still expresses interest, pull out the methylone. Talk to her again about the effects and maybe show her some Erowid trip reports. Then eat some with her. Be sure her dose is smaller than yours so she feels more confident that she's trying a 'starter' dose.
 
What kind of eating disorder did she battle with? I'm sure you're aware that stimulants wreak havoc on the whole appetite/metabolic system.

If she enjoys partying with you (loud music, suggestive dancing, etc) then sure M1 would be a good idea for her. Of course scale the dose down for her first time, perhaps no higher than 120mg knowing full well that she may not get anything from it but you're not pressuring her to "lose control". In fact i'd suggest saving it for a time you two can be together alone and do whatever you guys feel like, just like planning for a psychedelic trip. M1 is a wonderfully lovely thing to share with a significant other in the privacy of your bedroom, and I'm not just talking about the body high. Is your relationship with her to the point where you would both feel comfortable uttering the three magic words to each other and maybe letting your imaginations about the future go wild? Last time I did M1 with my girl, it was a truly magical experience and we felt very close all day and the rest of the week.
 
She once had anorexia and it almost resulted in death, therefore I wouldn't recommend psychedelics.

We wouldn't take it in a party setting, just her and I alone and just have a lovely evening together was what we were talking about. I bring up the topic again some day.
 
well then good luck with it! how did she overcome the problem? I've read about eating disorders in psychology 101 like most of us have, but never seen it first or second hand. If anything M1 or mild psychedelics could be useful for the treatment of acute esteem issues like that, to help the individual to understand his/her own innate beauty (and the unrealistic expectations that the media has)!
 
M1 is probably a good choice. It is pretty much always fun, and there is little that can go wrong. Just watch how much she uses and keep it under control.
 
I would start with something like BK-MDMA and take it from there. Psychadelics I think can be enjoyed by people that aren't very interested in getting high or doing drugs so if shes comftorable once shes experianced a few different body feelings just go from there man
 
Methylone's a good choice, but you're taking on quite a bit of responsibility introducing her to the stuff (and with it RC's in general).

Don't surprise her and don't push a specific date. Print out some info and point her to a site where she can get more (I'd opt for erowid). Then tell her she should think it over, and feel free to approach you if she has any questions or dares to try it one day. Let it all sink in and wait for her to come back to you. Give her time enough to mull it over and don't bring it up again until she does. She will, trust me -if only to satisfy her curiosity. That way she won't feel prompted to do something she isn't sure about. Pushing drugs on your significant other (yeah I know, harsh choice of words), regardless how benign the substance in question may be and how well you think they'll get on with it, remains awkward and feels a little uncomfortable to me. But that may just be me.
 
I wouldn't bring up the subject if she was just curious and not actually interested in trying anything, but if there's genuine interest as your post suggests, then mention it - do it in advance so she has time to prepare herself mentally, as if she is inexperienced with drugs it's a big step to take. Make sure to take her weight and tolerance into account and give her an appropriate dose, and show her that any necessary precautions have been taken so she can feel safe and not worried.

Although with it's rather high dose range a lot of people eyeball chemicals like Methylone (BK-MDMA) it'd be a good idea to use scales even if you don't normally, just to show her the procedure of weighing up a dose, and how it's important to do that to be safe. Firstly it'll show her you're responsible, and not just using without any cares, and second of all it'll help cultivate harm reduction in her own use if she continues to use Methylone and/or other drugs on her own without you there :)

I'd also advise you have the experience at home, in a relaxed environment with some hand-picked music, films, whatever you choose - just as a busy/public environment could be overwhelming for her first experience of any drug.

I hope you and her have fun :)
 
A little update:

So i brought up the subject again, and asked her if it was just the alcohol talking or if she really wanted to try methylone, she said she was serious, so we talked setting and stuff and she said she would like to try it just me and her. Scales will ofcourse be used.

I'll bring up more updates as they come.
 
it will take your sex-life to a whole other level! Have you watched porn together? I was shy about that kind of thing with my girlfriend/now wife... it wasn't until we were on mdma that i could bring that up with her .. now every time we dose methylone or mdma porn is an essential item for the night.(methylone works even better than mdma for sexytimes) Also, you could buy her a little bit piece of lingerie... and give it to her as a present when you're peaking on the methylone. Maybe have a playlist of her favourite songs handy also. With methylone - i'd pretty much guarantee she's going to have a wonderful night.
 
I would always choose MDMA as a 'gateway' 'delic - its not gonna freak her out and as long as you know the source and strengh its easy to know how much to give her for any particular desired effect. I remember the 1st time I took it i was really scared , this was back in 88 when it was the first new drug to come out for a long time, any way built up the guts to take 1/2 a pill and after that kicked in couldnt wait to take the other 1/2.....stopped raving 5 years later !
 
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