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My friends are mad at me

kevinkevin875

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So my best friend Bill has a lady friend. They're not officially a couple but they've gone out a couple times and have kissed. She reached out to me because she wants to be just friends with Bill. I talked to her on the phone once and texted her once. That's it. I didn't tell Bill or any of my other friends, but she finally talked to him and she told him that I talked to her about them. They're now just friends and Bill told the rest of the friend group what happened and they're all mad at me. I did this with another friend too. What should I do?
 
Are they mad at you because they've only heard one side of the story. If that's the case you need to put your side across.
 
Unfortunately I've told them my side of the story yet they still see me as being in the wrong. I did not want to be the one to tell this to Bill but Bill says I should have told him. They don't understand the predicament that I was in and I do not even know what to do at this point
 
You have done this a few times maybe you should mind your own business

I try not to cockblock my friend/encourage their girl to dump them
 
This is not something anyone here could actually offer you any opinions on. You are leaving out too many details, too much information...


Regardless, if you think you are in the right, and they don't, and this is recurring, then you might not be very compatible with this group of friends when it comes to this. So either hang with other friends or keep your nose out of these friends relationships
 
what i do if a girl talks to me about anything between her and a friend i say something along the lines of "i don't give a fuck about that that's between you and ____" and i'm that blunt about it, i really don't care about their drama or want to be involved. i suggest you do the same, it's not your job to mediate in these situations.
 
Explain to your friends that you didn't want to get in the middle of it. There is nothing wrong with that.
 
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