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My friend just died

Jabberwocky

Jabberwocky

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I’m crying, I have to sign for a new car today but I just wanna take the rest of my klonopin and fade away It’s only 3 1mgs so don’t worry. I’ve got until 2 to make it so
 
Maybe don’t do the car or the klonopin but go lay down for a sleep anyway. I’m sorry to hear about your friend. I’ve had a bunch pass on too, it never gets easier. Just take your time to grieve and do it properly. If you have anyone else around keep them close if you need them, it helps me anyway when I’m feeling down and out to have someone else there. Especially if you decide to take a measurable quantity of any kind of drug.

I don’t really have any good advice. You need someone to acknowledge this though now so here..

RIP
 
Hey @FuneralFather
Sorry about your friend. :(
I too have lost a couple of friends this year alone, and it really does suck. Just spend the rest of the day thinking of the happy times that you both had together, and worry about the car tomorrow.
We are here for you if you need someone to talk with <3.
 
Sorry for your loss @FuneralFather , as others have mentioned, it's never easy losing a friend. I find time is really the only thing to heal the wound. With that said, I generally try and do something to honor that person's memory and do something that they would have liked. Write them a song or poem, donate to an animal shelter in their name, say a prayer; it doesn't matter what you do so long as you're honoring that persons memory in a personal way. I also find going out into nature for a walk or having a good cry by yourself in the woods can be cathartic. Take care of yourself too, I'm sure that's what your friend would want and try not to hit the self-destruct button.

My condolences.
 
Alex_1991 said:
Maybe don’t do the car or the klonopin but go lay down for a sleep anyway. I’m sorry to hear about your friend. I’ve had a bunch pass on too, it never gets easier. Just take your time to grieve and do it properly. If you have anyone else around keep them close if you need them, it helps me anyway when I’m feeling down and out to have someone else there. Especially if you decide to take a measurable quantity of any kind of drug.

I don’t really have any good advice. You need someone to acknowledge this though now so here..

RIP
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I waited and getting the car now ima wait till I’m home to take anything.
 
I feel for you my brotha!! I know the pain!!
feel it to heal it man. Just reading your posts reminds me of the pain it sends a chill down my spine.

Be strong,don’t fk off on A bunch of drugs!! I realized that they who died are with me now MORE than they were alive. You will see eventually your thoughts of them keep them alive.
Try not to fall into personal despair. Look to help his family in any way you can. Look to be of service to those who were close to him. Be strong be a responsible iron clad friend for him.
You will heal, it takes time. And remember you are alive!!! Don’t take any day for granted!
Be well....
 
I've lost 4 friends to heroin/fent over the years. I am so sorry man.... attend the funeral if you can.

I will remember the funerals more than my friends. Made a huge impact on my life and likely one of the reasons I am still alive today.

Honor them by being there, if you can.

I'm sorry for your loss.
 
SnafuInTheVoid said:
I've lost 4 friends to heroin/fent over the years. I am so sorry man.... attend the funeral if you can.

I will remember the funerals more than my friends. Made a huge impact on my life and likely one of the reasons I am still alive today.

Honor them by being there, if you can.

I'm sorry for your loss.
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He’s being creamated, they found a capsule with a yellow Powered substance on the floor
 
OH my god, I have no words - since i like you a lot which you hopefully know. Let me give you a hug. My condolences to you and your closest. It is hell in the beginning but it's getting better if that sounds stupid. It is like that. The time takes the pain slowly away but in your heart he will always be with you 💗
 
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