My cat died this morning...

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My little Burmese cat - Robert Jones - died this morning :(

On June 23, 2012, he came in from the garden with blood coming from his mouth. Oddly, he kept clawing at his tongue which was making it worse, to the extent that blood was all over the floor. So we took him straight to the vets.

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They immediately sedated him due to how hysterical he was, and late Saturday afternoon, they stitched his tongue back together.

On Sunday, when he was brought out of the anaesthesia, he proceeded to claw the stiches out and therefore we were back at square one. They repeated what they did on Saturday although this time they put little boxing gloves on him so he couldn't undo the stitches. He also had a drip feed attached to his neck due to him being unable to eat with his mouth.

After being reviewed by a few more veterinarians, they gave a diagnosis of "Feline orofacial pain syndrome" but wanted him to be seen by a specialist.

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So on Tuesday, we anxiously waited as he was taken up to Liverpool University where he was seen by a specialist. We were told he may have to have a brain scan to check for any underlying mental issues. We were releived when were given good news from the specialist, who told us that he suffered no underlying mental problems and expected Robbie to make a quick and full recovery. He came back to our home town that evening and my Dad went to see him and he was looking really healthy:

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So, onto this morning, when it all went wrong. We were told that his food tube became blocked during the night and it needed to be replaced. In order for them to do this, he had to be anaesthetized once again. We thought very little of it, until my Dad got a call saying that he had failed to come out of the anaesthesia...

He was 7

R.I.P Robbie, I will really fucking miss you! :|

I just wish I'd been able to say goodbye...

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He leaves behind his brother by blood - William - who is constantly roaming around the house meowing in hopes of a reply but obviously it'll never happen. Until Saturday they had never been apart from more than a few hours. Here's a picture of the two of them along with our dog:

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That's awful news and you have my full condolences.

I know you're probably not thinking of this right now, but 7yrs old is quite young for a cat, and the hospital needs to take responsibility for their mistake. I don't know what the standard procedure for compensation is in these matters, but I certainly hope that they do the right thing.
 
I'm rather intoxicated thanks to rvarious opiates and alcohol now, numbing the inevitable pain though...

We understand that completely, he was anaesthetized three or four times in five days (possibly tiletamine?). As you can see from the pictures, he was fucking t iny!

My dad won't listen to me, but I've said that negligence my have played a part in his premature death.
 
I'm rather intoxicated thanks to rvarious opiates and alcohol now, numbing the inevitable pain though...

I understand your pain. :( My dog Caroline had to be put down at the age of 18. It was the hardest decision I've ever had to make. When she passed, and more recently my ex-girlfriend OD'd I turned to drugs. Be careful, it's easy to hurt yourself. I was inebriated for weeks. Dissociatives, opiates, and pot are the only thing that got me through. I hope you feel better soon!
 
@ish, I'm sorry to hear that - it must have been such a difficult decision to make, I don't know how you did it...

I have never overdone opiates. They have always been a once a week thing for me. But all I want to do right now is keep the alcohol and opoids flowing through me to numb the pain. Time will heal, but for now I'm breaking the promise I made to myself. Right now, work and general life can blow me, seriously...

He used to sleep with me every night. He would greet me at the door and it feels horribly lonely without him, his fur is still on my sheets...

I'm only 19 years old and it was Robbie who got me through my parents divorce as even two years after it happened, the pain still felt fresh as it was such a horrible, violent end to my parents marriage. I suppose we take the effects that pets have on us for granted, until they're gone... Without knowing it, he was there for me throughout my addiction to Mephedrone, too!

I can't believe how distraught the death of an animal has made me, I'm in pieces!!!

"Some might say, we will find a brighter day..."
 
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Your post made me teary eyed. Your Robbie was gorgeous. May he rest in peace now. <3 Losing a pet is such a difficult thing to go through. Please take care of yourself while you're grieving. <3
 
Thankyou for such a kind comment, he really was a gorgeous little man - my gorgeous little man...

I don't care about myself right now though, I just want my baby back
 
So incredibly sorry for your loss...words cannot express how you must feel.

You should ask the veterinarian for the entire medical record. Speak with the vet personally, not some receptionist.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about this :(

Cats are really amazing creatures and your Robbie looks like he was absolutely gorgeous. It's entirely understandable you feel like this, especially as Robbie helped you get through some difficult times.. allow yourself to grieve for him and be gentle and patient with yourself.

Do you have someone to talk to about this? I know it's hard but isolating yourself away can make things much worse.. someone to talk to, and time, are really the best things for something like this I think.. be kind to yourself, remember your beautiful cat and how lucky you were to have him, and things will get better <3
 
Do you have someone to talk to about this? I know it's hard but isolating yourself away can make things much worse.. someone to talk to, and time, are really the best things for something like this I think.. be kind to yourself, remember your beautiful cat and how lucky you were to have him, and things will get better <3

I suppose that's why I posted the full story on Bluelight, to vent...

I won't do anything silly, intoxication just seems like the best idea atm :(

Thanks all!
 
I'm very sorry for your loss; may your cat rest in peace and may the memory of it stay alive in you forever and may the memories of your cat soothe you and bring you happiness, not pain <3. 7 is far too young for a cat to die but please remember him, remember your love for him and the love you recieved from your cat; a cat's life may be short but the memory of it can live as long as you do or even longer.
 
I've added a picture to the first post, it shows Robert with his brother by blood - William - snuggling together with the family dog.

Until Saturday, Rob and Will had never been apart for more than a few hours... Will constantly seems to be searching for him around the house...

The picture was taken very recently:

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Thanks gaza <3
 
I suppose that's why I posted the full story on Bluelight, to vent...

I won't do anything silly, intoxication just seems like the best idea atm :(

Thanks all!

Vent away! Definitely good to talk about it <3

Yeah intoxication must seem very tempting, but it really just delays everything and you don't want to have to handle increasing drug use at the same time as you are grieving for your cat.. Grief isn't something you can wipe out with substances, at least not for more than a short time anyway. It just makes it worse.. Do you have something (non-taxing) you can do today to keep yourself occupied?
 
i'm sorry for your loss. everybody loosing a long-loved pet knows, that it's not just a cat. :-(
 
I am so sorry for your loss. I know it was made even harder because you never got to say goodbye and thought he was out of danger. Losing an animal that you have bonded with in that special way is so painful. They love us so completely and without judgement. I hope his brother gets lots of love as he is going through his own grief kitty-style. It looks like you have a very animal-loving family so I know you will all take care of each other well. Much love to you.
 
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