That's what my fear is. By being understanding of his addiction, I ended up being too lenient and accepting of his mistakes. He doesn't want to taper off too quickly because of his job, it's physically demanding and he doesn't want to be sick.
I've made it clear if he slips up again it's completely over. I can't and I won't put myself through living with an addict that doesn't want to recover. I also don't want to be that girl whose boyfriend steals from her and she just keeps making excuses for him. He's never taken anything from me by the way and currently has money of his own.
I know it's a disease but he made the choice to relapse. There is no excuse for that. He threw away almost a year of being heroin free. I just can't understand that and never will I suppose.
I've made it clear if he slips up again it's completely over. I can't and I won't put myself through living with an addict that doesn't want to recover. I also don't want to be that girl whose boyfriend steals from her and she just keeps making excuses for him. He's never taken anything from me by the way and currently has money of his own.
I know it's a disease but he made the choice to relapse. There is no excuse for that. He threw away almost a year of being heroin free. I just can't understand that and never will I suppose.