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My boyfriend has never gone down on a woman and I really miss it!

Pagey said:
^ Disagree B1tO', the guy (or girl for that matter) needs to check if it's okay first. I've been with WAY too many guys who just assume they can do whatever they want with my ass and it really pisses me off. It's different if it's a boyfriend, but still.
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you can disagree all you want! still doesn't make the fact that in practice, if done right, it never matters as it always works out nicely, if done with TLC! However I will keep that in mind before I try and finger you in the ass... haha
 
nooneanymore said:
^You're the common denominator...
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You sound like you've never received anal. And I'm pretty sure 100% of the guys I've slept with so far hadn't either and considering that frankly it's pretty painful and uncomfortable, at least at first, I kinda think you need to ask.
I was speaking to a gay friend the other day about it who told me that in his experience sleeping with other gay men, it's NEVER understood from the beginnign that there will be any anal penetration because yaeh, it's a step, and it's not always that pleasant for the person receiving. I just wish straight men would get that as well.

Lysis said:
Not really. Men always go for the butt sooner or later.
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Yup...

B1tO'RoughJack said:
you can disagree all you want! still doesn't make the fact that in practice, if done right, it never matters as it always works out nicely, if done with TLC! However I will keep that in mind before I try and finger you in the ass... haha
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Well perhaps, but I wouldn't know seeing as I've never have it done nicely to me hah
And okay...Vaguely disturbing my dear :)
 
For getting to know each other, especially sexually, talking, exploring, showing, trying new things... then it has to be MDMA in a comfy, safe setting. Candles, music, bubble bath and lots of time. Beautiful! :)
 
Oh, man! He doesn't know what he's missing... tongue-strumming the ol' clit-ar is my specialty! ;)

It sounds to me like he's just not very experienced, but, then again, I have met women before who swear that, for whatever reason, they just do not like receiving oral, and so maybe the last partner your boyfriend had felt similarly?
 
Lysis said:
Not really. Men always go for the butt sooner or later.
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trudat

its not an english thing its a scared of new experience thing.

get him a few drinks and see if he's more open to suggestion. also no blowjobs until he goes down on you. its about pulling your weight sexually
 
Not suggesting it's anything related, but when I started seeing the guy I've been seeing now he said he never did it for his ex who he was with for 2 years because she didn't wash and he just wasn't doing it. He said "They don't care, they just want the cock".

By the way, I like guys who are upset about being used as "studs". They understand women.
 
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