My Aunt is Dying

[ScaredofMyself]

She recently had heart surgery, and it was a success. Then while she was recovering in the hospital a few days later. Then today her heart stopped, they were able to bring her back, and it's not looking good.


I feel like crying. I feel sad.

But the tears just won't come out.

Everyone is gone. I have no one.

 

[Cosmic Trigger]

I'm sorry you are feeling so alone. I know that feeling well. I'm down to my two dogs now. I hope you can get to that crying place. It feels like shit but it's better than no tears. I really don't have much consolation other than to tell you that I know the feeling. We are all alone in the end. Take care.

 

[Eveleivibe]

She recently had heart surgery, and it was a success. Then while she was recovering in the hospital a few days later. Then today her heart stopped, they were able to bring her back, and it's not looking good.


I feel like crying. I feel sad.

But the tears just won't come out.

Everyone is gone. I have no one.

Awh x

Evey

 

[Jabberwocky]

I lost too many people in my short life. I'm so sorry your feeling this pain. When my husband died I couldnt cry. It was a shock, part of the grief process but when I finally did it was like it would never stop. The aching pain, the aloneness... I know it's hard to believe but time do make it bearable Hang in there and please don't do what I did and resort to drugs or booze. It's a bandaide and once you stop it's still there with added problems. My heart goes out to you
stay strong. It's amazing how much pain we can handle I.ll be thinking of ya and don't feel alone. Either pm me or one of the awesome people here, your not alone��

 

[Moreaux]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Watching someone you love slowly die is the hardest thing in life, imo. Make sure to take care of yourself while you take care of her. Hugs!

 

[ScaredofMyself]

Thank you all.


She has survived the storm, and is on her way to a good recovery.

 

[Jabberwocky]

Thank you all.




She has survived the storm, and is on her way to a good recovery.

Very good to hear?

 

[TeratogenicSin]

I am glad to hear she is doing better. Remember to take care of you,​ though, too.

 

[ScaredofMyself]

If only I knew how.

 

[Moreaux]

So glad to hear she is doing better! As for taking care of you - eat healthy (plenty of whole foods, multivitamin), get decent sleep (try to stay of a schedule), and excersize (even if it's an hour of walking a day). Those are the easiest things to implement for improving the quality of life.