moving out

i turn 18 on Sunday. which is when i plan on moving out the next day. my dad hates the fact i don't want to live here anymore and i really hate living here. his bitch wife and 2 rotten ass kids.
i'm kind of stuck on how to tell him i want to move out. i plan on doing it the night of my birthday, not like we are doing anything special...but i need to come up with a way that he won't freak out and it start a huge fight...fml.

 

do you have it planned on where you are going, destiny?

I'm thinking that a sudden move in the middle of the night might cause exactly what you are trying to avoid, a freak out an a huge fight full of drama the next day.

Oh, welcome to Bluelight Blogs! %)

 

Congrats!
Umm yeah doing it in the middle of the night might help. Maybe get a friend so you'll go quicker.

Do you have a place to go? Can you pay rent? All of that?

I don't mean to pry or anything ... but at 18 I didn't have enough money to pay rent and my parent's paid my rent during the first year of college aha.

Moving out is nice though. I moved out when I was 17 for college. I moved back to my parents the first summer but since then I have lived on my own. Actually I lived with them for two and a half weeks. It was terrible!!! lol. Moving back home sucks ... a lot.

Best of luck on everything ... oh and happy birthday :D

 

Yeah i'm moving in with my mom. she wants the best for me. unlike my dad who flipped out that i applied for a college.
i want to move out at night but they will hear me. i was thinking about doing it while he was at work. but i want him to know i'm leaving...just don't want the shit that goes with it. my step mom will be excited. she wants me gone as soon as possible. i just don't know how to finally stand up for myself and confront my dad for the 18 years of hell he's put me through..
and thanks for the welcoming and the birthday wish.

 

I think that moving your stuff out while he's away, and waiting until he gets home to tell him is probably the best. That way it's a done deal, but you're still doing the right thing and telling him in person. If possible, with someone there with you to prevent/witness any freak-outs.

Good luck to you; it sounds like a rough situation. Who would get angry at their child for applying to a college? It boggles my mind.

 

He wanted me to wait a year and i'm not going to the stupid college my step mom went to. Brown mackie. Its not even a credited college. And idk it feels like everything i do is never enough. So i'm done.