More Misogyny

I'm cross posting this from a post I made in the SLR forum. I need toget this out of my system.

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Psycho girlfriend behavior

It's a list that I will keep adding to whenever I think of something else.

Most of the above.
And:
She screams "RAPE!" at the top of her lungs in a department store when you won't buy her the $400 sweater she HAS to have.
She says her ex-boyfriends raped her.
She kicks your dog.
Runs over your pet rat.
Then rams you with her car.
Tries to run over elderly neighbor with car.
Pees on your chair.
Accuses your friend of drugging her and raping her.
As you can imagine, this causes problems for the friend.
Then, she laughs when your friend (his name was Dusty) kills himself. Then makes a joke: "Dusty's taking a dirt nap. HAHAHAHa," she shrieks hysterically.
Then she says:" And when I get through with you, you'll be taking a dirt nap with Dusty." "HAAHAHAHa!" she cackles gleefully at that thought.
Cooks you stew, and after eating about half a bowl, you find a tampon in it.
Puts Nair in your shampoo bottle.
Sticks a wine bottle up her butt.
Then, breaks wine bottle over your head. I've still got a divot-shaped scar in the side of my head.
Then beats her mom with a lamp when mom tries to intervene.
Then hides in her dealer's apartment across the street because by now, the neighbors have called the cops.
Once in jail, calls you and says you have to get her out or you'll "get what's coming to you."
Still in jail, threatens suicide and goes to psych ward.
Cuts holes in your underwear.
Drugs and kidnaps you.
Won't let you break up with her. Ever.
Claims she just gave birth to your baby and shows you something in a tupperware bowl that she has been keeping in her refrigerator. The bowl has a bloody mess in it.
Follows you around town and figures out who you're now seeing and then threatens them.
Keys your new girl friends car.
Spray paints your new girlfriends front door.
Poops in your new girlfriends front yard.
Gets into your old papers when your not home and steals your Socko-Dex from several years ago. It contains a list of phone numbers of family, current and former friends, x-girlfriends (marked out), etc.
Calls your boss, co-workers, relatives, ex-girlfriends, ex-girlfriends' mothers, etc. and tells them she's a battered woman. When her calls don't elicit the intended response, she keeps calling and threatens these people.
Gets you fired.
There's more. I'm writing a blog about it. It's titled "Misogyny."

 

She sounds like she needs to be single. Now. Get that shit out of your life. Being single is preferable to being with someone toxic.

Thanks

 

She doesn't know what state I'm in, but I still get messages on my cell phone. Need to change the number.
Just going over this in my mind makes me mad and want to act out.... Sorry. I didn't reaqlize anybody read these things. OK, i'll edit. No drama.

 

No worries.

I'm serious though, if she does half of the things that you mentioned that more than qualifies as abuse, and you need to get your ass out of that situation NOW.

 

That list is only the tip of the iceberg. What seemed at the time to me to be normal female behavior, and I based that perception on my childhood experiences, I realized only too late that any one of those things is a form of abuse, and I should have ended it the first time something happened. (OK, not only that, but something about women who have some kind of spark in them, maybe are a little off or a little crazy makes them interesting. This spark, I first thought it was a sense of adventure or spontaneity, but I now realize it is problably violent insanity. Such was the case for the lovely but tragically insane Psycho Suzie. If they don't have that spark, they are boring to me.) I'm mad at myself for letting it go on so long. It got so bad that the only way to end it was to leave town. Every time things got so bad that she caught caught and got locked up, her family GOT HER OUT OF JAIL or the PSYCH WARD, depending on where she was.

I've been out of that situation for more than a year now, but emotionally, it feels like yesterday. It was the kind of situation where I could not live in the same city she was in. In fact, I moved to another state (she does not know which state -- I might have told her I was moving to Oslo, Norway) and haven't seen her in more than a year. Unfortunately, I know of at least one of her grifter/junkie/tweaker friends who is in my current city-- so, I hope they don't talk because she will try to cause more problems.