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Sex + Drugs Meth & Sex Megathread

Hey everybody this is my first post ever though I stop by from time to time since from 2016 or 2017 i think. Very informative website, didnt really think anything like this existed on the clearnet and what not. Okay well here's my dilemma if you can call it that. I consider myself a functioning addict, I work, I'm engaged but been together going on 6 years now. We have a blended family which hers and mines together total 6 kids 3 boys 3 girls.. Oldest son (20yrs) is in college schooling and our youngest is 4 years old (girl). We're both (me and fiancee) addicts and her choice of drug is meth. Mines is also meth and beer (they balanced each other out). First our first year anniversary we had a dinner and went to a bar afterwards to have some drinks. After bar closing we headed to a hotel room for the night (reservation). What I did that night I thought was a little goofy on my behalf thinking she was gonna get a good laugh out of it. She wailed in to a dimmed room with a trail of $20 sacks of meth leading up to a glass bong that was on a table in front of that bed. That trail of baggies made a heart shape around the bong . In front of that bong was also a torch and whatever was left of dope from making all those baggies which all together was a whole zone.. she thought that was the sweetest and thoughtful thing ever. Lol. She loved it and it was a goodnight...fast forward till now and life has dulled us a little bit and christmas is just is really soon. As a gift I wanted to do something similar and what I was planning was to get like a little ring not like a real jewelry ring but like a little toy ring . I have a nice solid shard that's 14 grams on point. I was thinking of shaping the shard into like a heart or diamond like shape and mounting it on top of that ring. But I'm afraid of shattering the whole shard into a bunch of smaller pieces . What do you guys think? Any feedback would be appreciated.. thank you all
 
I reckon the one you did for first year anniversary was kind of corny but in a really sweet way. The ring idea is way cool. But a 14 gram shard would be gigantic as part of a ring. If you want something that looks like a stylish diamond then a gram or two would probably make something nice. With a really sharp blade you should be able to shave it down easily without shattering it. Shave at a tight angle rather than trying to cut.
 
Chisel the biggest shard into a heart and use the powder you scrape to make a snowy decoration around it like Christmas season. Put that underneath a mistletoe (made of meth?) and kiss beneath it and have hotrail stem ready. Two of them to shovel the snow and create the winter fog and fuck like animals after.

Wild? Probably.
 
Update: well I tried carving and scraping the shard with an x-acto blade. Unfortunately it split down the middle when I was trying to shape the grooves on the top for the heart. So I just ended up putting it in clear plastic case and in to a basket along with new torch,butane can,new piece for the bong,and a pack of magic erasers. She loved it.. but I really wanted to do the ring idea. Thanks for the feedback
 
My boyfriend always watches porn I mean always but never wants to have sex with me. He uses meth and I am not sure if that has anything to do with it but I am thinking of moving on. I have a hard time because he deals drugs and is always out all hours of the night. I think he would be such a better person if he didn’t use. I use too but really want to quit and enjoy life. What’s the reason he’s rather watch porn than fuck me? Is this common?
 
Spunouttt said:
My boyfriend always watches porn I mean always but never wants to have sex with me. He uses meth and I am not sure if that has anything to do with it but I am thinking of moving on. I have a hard time because he deals drugs and is always out all hours of the night. I think he would be such a better person if he didn’t use. I use too but really want to quit and enjoy life. What’s the reason he’s rather watch porn than fuck me? Is this common?
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I used to be like that. Its partly getting stuck and still being able to indulge in the most erotic fantasies. I was like that til my girl at the time would do the same and then it just changed. He also might be having some fantasy that he might not want you to know about. Sex and meth is the greatest though i would never turn it down for my hand. I mean you probably know all the different amazing ways to make it pop all the way from the toes using meth!
 
MoonPaws said:
My bf and I sometimes party together for a couple days. It use to be fun but now all he wants to do is masturbate to porn for hours even days edging. He'll lay next to me and have zero interest in sex or playing with me. He actually prefers to watch me mess around with other dudes than actually playing with me. If and when he finally decides to have sex with me, he either struggles to get it up because his dick is beat up from 48 hours of edging or is so wound up from edging - he immediately cums when inserted.

Now he doesn't have interest in sex off drugs and the above is what the drug is doing to him.

What's going on with him and how can I gain his interest? I'm down with the partying on ocassion and we use to have amazing sex on drugs and off drugs. But it's over taken actual sex now to only me watching him frantically stroke himself for hours and hours and hours. He tells me we can call another dude over for me and I'm okay with MMF stuff sometimes but I love/want my bf.

I don't know what to do. Other than this, the relationship and he are amazing but the lack of sex and intimacy is getting to me.
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You are living with an addict. You wrote a classic codependent post here. He has to stop doing Meth because he can't manage his use, and you can't use with him anymore because to do so is simply enabling him. I recommend Alanon for you. You don't have to abstain yourself if you don't want to, but those meetings can help you understand what works when trying to understand and cope with an addict.
 
The drug-fueled, several hours long masturbation sessions by a male partner are not unfamiliar to me. I dealt with this for likely 5-6 months, as I recall.

He’d lost his job, which had taken him out of town each week from Sunday night - Friday midday. I’m not sure how much, or whether he was engaging in this fun when he was out of town at the hotel he stayed in during his workweek. I do know he couldn’t have been spending the same amount of time, nor half of it, loving on himself while still employed. I suspect he wasn’t hitting the drugs too hard while he still had his job because he had to be on top of his game.

His drug taking really ramped up once he lost his job, (for knocking out a construction foreman at the jobsite 🤣; he’s so totes a dumbfuck!) A day after being fired, he was then home 24/7. I’m not certain he was doing meth, though in hindsight, I suspect so. I know he was doing lots of blow. His other drugs were anabolic steroids, which he took in copious amounts. He was in a chronically bad mood, too. He was carrying on 3 concurrent affairs, which was made easier as they each lived in different cities. His body was changing radically, and rapidly, and he got super big arms and thighs, even kind of a big ass, but I digress.

I was off work at this time, due to a long recovery after kidney surgery, and I witnessed his daily porn indulgence + limitless whack off sessions. As much as I know about male sexual health and activity, frequency and duration of masturbation is not a topic I know much about.

After my daughter was off to school, he was off to the races each morning. I was usually still in bed (this was about 7:30am). He would hop on our bedroom desktop computer (I imagine he preferred it due to its large monitor) which faced me. I always pretended to be asleep because, mostly the porn genres he fancied thoroughly disgusted me. I’m not a frigid girl, either. And, god forbid, if he got really worked up, I didn’t want to be asked to service him.

Anyway, other than bathroom breaks, stops for drinks, and likely breaks for the replenishment of steroids, blow and whatever else was on the daily drug menu, he kept going until my daughter arrived home, usually 3:30pm or so. If she called and wanted to hang out with a friend and perhaps have dinner with them, he’d keep it going on until she got home.

So, with the little bathroom and kitchen breaks, he could keep going over 12 hours some days. I noticed that he was almost always 100% flaccid, since morning wood was more like 3:00am. I never observed him using any sort of lotion or lube, and 100% of the time he never came. This makes me think he just enjoyed doing this for the sake of doing it, and wasn’t anticipating any end reward. At night before bed, I often saw him apply Neosporin - an antibiotic cream that aids in the healing of cuts, burns, etc., in addition to a bandage. I don’t know if that Neosporin worked overnight wonders, or the urge to self-fondle was just too great to ignore, because invariably he’d be back at it the next morning, so long as it was a weekday.

I’m certain these sessions were drug fueled and I imagine the blow could’ve provided a degree of pain management perhaps. Without drugs, I have no way to explain his behavior, since it happened at least 4/5 days of the school/work week.
 
SnafuInTheVoid said:
Taking propranolol before meth helped me with this issue. Could be blood pressure related. There was also one drug that was a magical fix for meth dick but I wouldn't advise even the most experienced druggies to take it, so I won't suggest it.
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How much propranolol do you take? I have a few hundred of the 20 mg and end up watching my fiancé get more and more frustrated. Every time.
 
Atelier3 said:
I have suffered from this problem many a time. Sometimes the solution is actually more meth. I find I’m super excitable after another big hit when I’ve been limp for a while. I can usually get an hour out of that. I do often use viagra ( noting the risks of using it with meth) and find 50 mg will do the trick but only if taken after the bulk of my meth is already been consumed. It works less well when taken in advance. The third trick, useful when being orally pleasured, is to turn your mind to your hottest fantasy and stop thinking about what your partner of the moment is doing. Finally, there’s no beating a sensibly sized toy lovingly placed in your ass and manipulated in tempo with your blowjob - that not only fixes the limp ness but will usually bring on the very hard to achieve meth orgasm.

Note: all these things are highly effective when combined....
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What sort of dildos and vibrators do you put into your ass, or someone's ass or vagina?
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
What sort of dildos and vibrators do you put into your ass, or someone's ass or vagina?
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Man, you should change your name to PrurientTheyCalledHim. I don’t think there has been a single kink post on BL in the last year where you haven’t probed for details 😂😜

But to answer your question - usually a medium firm curvy silicone prostate massager.
 
Atelier3 said:
Man, you should change your name to PrurientTheyCalledHim. I don’t think there has been a single kink post on BL in the last year where you haven’t probed for details 😂😜

But to answer your question - usually a medium firm curvy silicone prostate massager.
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I tried a prostate vibrator once. It did not feel good, it would have felt better had I used it externally. It made my ass burn and I thought I had hurt myself even though that did not happen.
 
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