Not so.
I've had sex with a guy so good I almost screamed when he didn't have sex with me the next time I saw him at the bar (where we also had sex). Some guys have this with me too.
If they're not terrible sex with companions beats masturbation every time. Although it is true I do come faster and more often with jerking off alone.
Eh, there are pros and cons to both. We know what we like, so we also know exactly how to get ourselves off, but of course there's something magical, sensual, and perhaps even sacred, in a way, about having sex with a partner. And if both people are on the same page of working to get the other person off rather than focusing on themselves, this truly changes the dynamic and it can inspire passion. This is a powerful thing, which is why e.g., people have been known to murder over betrayals of trust regarding sexual companionship. Outside of money and religion, there are not many other major motivating factors in the world… sex, money, religion, art, drugs, power, revenge, shame, pride, boredom, survival, and respect…
How about: would rather have sex with one hot person 100 times or have sex 1 time with 100 different hot people? Obviously, orientation is up to you. In an interview, Steven Tyler from Aerosmith was asked this question. He said sex 100 x with one woman, mentioning how he likes to get to know a woman intimately over time, learning what gets her off and letting her discover what gets him off. I thought that was an interesting answer. But then it's kind of ignoring the novelty aspect of sexual attraction, which is a definitely a thing.
Idk tho… humans are weird. If we weren't hardwired to like it, we would probably all think sex is repulsive and gross. Or if you were describing it to an asexual alien being from another dimension who was passing through one day and you happen to strike up a conversation—you know, as one
does—it would sound pretty gnarly. The alien would be like: oh, how inconvenient and unappealing that sounds. Then you'd start rattling off shit about genetic mutations and selective adaptations, and he'd put a collar around you and whisk you off into deep space to live as his human pet for the rest of your days, which—aside from some lonely spells—is actually a decent life if you can get past being "fixed"
