I remember when it happened, no one was suprised. Everyone had seen something like that coming because he was living so wild and dangerously. And he acted completely on impulse and never thought things through.
I also remember the general consensus was that it was something he had brought upon himself, not that he deserved it exactly, but that it's something that can happen when you live like that (though many also go unscathed). But he had lived as a criminal, violent, alcoholic, non-worker, and womaniser who cheated and didn't bring up or support his children. The list of what you're not supposed to do was quite long.
I was just a kid when it happened, but I remember also thinking this is what happens when you live like that, and it was something he had done to himself. Because my dad didn't live anything like that and nothing bad ever happened to him. At least that's how it looked to my simple mind at the time, and I lost a lot of respect for him after that, it was like I had lost him in a way.
So there was quite a lot of unspoken judgement around it and he wasn't treated with the kind of sympathy a car crash victim would have been. He was aware of all this himself, too, and was quite ashamed at first. Of course after the accident he had to change the way he lived and he is a completely reformed character now. Now he lives like my grandparents tried to bring him up to be. Everything has to be done right, etc.
I disagree with that he was a bully, though. Sure, he abused his power, but it was more for fun, and not because he wanted to really hurt anyone. Hearing what that nurse said about him, and he had such a great heart and love for people. He was extremely sociable and only wanted to have a good time with people. The ones who beat him up were also old friends he had helped out and only been kind to. He would only fight when he was provoked, or drunk, or maybe when he wanted to have a bit of fun and demonstrate what he could do. It was more about that, or asserting his ego (I guess he was a bit of an ego-maniac), it wasn't about wanting to hurt anyone.
Of course, I never saw the worst side of him. I was like his surrogate daughter and we were kind of on the same wave-length, or pretty wild, impulsive, and a bit manic. Come to think of it, he might have been a real manic, but then he lived a pretty awesome life. He was just high on the life he was living and I don't think he ever really grew up before the accident happened.
Sad ending for such a person but some like living dangerously.