howlowhowlstheowl
Bluelighter
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- May 18, 2017
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That would be sad but it's your life in the end. Is it too much to postpone this plan? Mark each day for 365 days and if you still feel this is the only way then do it exactly a year from now. Just like you just did today, don't stress about the exercise and whatnot just do what you can, eat, sleep - that's it. You are now in a very acute state but it would not stay this way.
When you get even 20-30% of emotion it becomes much more bearable. That's about my state.. Years ago I went through something similar and had complete anhedonia for a good 6 months, then I could gradually start at least watching movies etc. I think about death too a lot, but since I've recovered from that experience I belive this too can heal. But I have my doubts too.. I don't know if my central nervous system can really repair all this repeated hammering. I can't even control my eyes anymore for fucks sake.. but I'm not going yet, I'll see at least a year and then I might opt for suicide too. I can't do much either. The only productive thing I did today was go for a walk.. I felt today again like I was having a stroke so I just sat and breathed for about 3 hours. Tried watching some youtube but couldn't pay attention, also randomly reading this forum and others, lounging around, eating.. that's my life pretty much now just minute by minute getting through. That's all I can do. I'm hoping at 3-6 months I can do more but now this is it.
If you can just wait the anhedonia will fade. Gradually it will dull down to a flat feeling of just constant boredom and apathy. First emotions to come are usually the bad ones anger, irritability, anxiety etc. And then windows of happiness come, only to go away again. But in time they get more and more common. I've read so many recovery stories and my own past experience too even tho it was caused by a different source the damage was still to the same serotonin system.
I wish you peace no matter where you end up.
When you get even 20-30% of emotion it becomes much more bearable. That's about my state.. Years ago I went through something similar and had complete anhedonia for a good 6 months, then I could gradually start at least watching movies etc. I think about death too a lot, but since I've recovered from that experience I belive this too can heal. But I have my doubts too.. I don't know if my central nervous system can really repair all this repeated hammering. I can't even control my eyes anymore for fucks sake.. but I'm not going yet, I'll see at least a year and then I might opt for suicide too. I can't do much either. The only productive thing I did today was go for a walk.. I felt today again like I was having a stroke so I just sat and breathed for about 3 hours. Tried watching some youtube but couldn't pay attention, also randomly reading this forum and others, lounging around, eating.. that's my life pretty much now just minute by minute getting through. That's all I can do. I'm hoping at 3-6 months I can do more but now this is it.
If you can just wait the anhedonia will fade. Gradually it will dull down to a flat feeling of just constant boredom and apathy. First emotions to come are usually the bad ones anger, irritability, anxiety etc. And then windows of happiness come, only to go away again. But in time they get more and more common. I've read so many recovery stories and my own past experience too even tho it was caused by a different source the damage was still to the same serotonin system.
I wish you peace no matter where you end up.