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Masturbation - Always/Sometimes/Never?

As much as you'd like as long as it isn't interfering with your sex life and it isn't interfering with the rest of your life (ex. you still go to school, work, hang out with people, etc.).
 
Darksidesam said:
Thats way too many times,

maybe when you first discover masturbation but not that many times a day. Your going to end up with a whole number of problems. They say 3-4 times a week.

The problems you will face are psychological, and physical , google it you will see.
Btw i suffer from Chronic bacterial prostatitis from having surgery when i was younger, and i believe a simliar pain/condition can arise from masturbation, it feels like your dieing or something when you ejacuate or when you pee at the end. its just not a nice feeling, and it can last for quite a while after too.
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Definitely varies from person to person. I'm extremely hyper-sexual and I have to do it once a day or i can't control myself. I still need to do it when i have a gf, i tried not doing it with a couple of my exes and all i wanted to do was fuck, all day all night and that's why they are exes. it really depends though, if im bored ill do it more than once a day just to fill some time. i can't really relate with the whole withdrawal thing being that i stay away from addiction - except for cigarettes of course but that would be the opposite, i always smoke after i do it lol... so if i quit smoking i'll have to quit masturbating too xD

also idk how u could do it 5 times a day. after 3 my wanker is sore for a couple of days... if i went 5 i'd probably damn near rip my dick off lolol
 
motherofearth said:
I'm about a week clean from a pretty severe heroin/cocaine habit
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anything healthy that occupies your mind/body/energy at this point is a good thing. once you get a little more settled in your recovery, you might want to re-evaluate why/how often you're masturbating, but right now if it's helping you stay clean, any other concerns seem insignificant.
 
After about 5 months on methadone I can finally masturbate occasionally and actually get off. It still is harder than normal, but it allows me to get some sexual satisfaction a few times a week (anywhere from 0-3 times a week). Before I was on methadone or taking opioids regularly I'd masturbate once a day. Sometimes twice.
 
I think my willie would hurt if I spanked it 3 to 5 times a day... I`d also worry I`d wear it down to a nub! BUT, different strokes for different folks... (sorry couldn`t resist)
 
I don't understand the whole penis falling off from whacking in excess of three times - but to those suffering from such masturbatory malcontent, I recommend das LUBE
 
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if i have taken ice then I usually end up in a gay sex club and usually end up masturbating for hours and hours, I dont like lube on my cock so often by morning my cock looks like the head of a turkey that lost a fight with a lion. Then I end up spening the week putting moisturisers on it to heal the damaged skin. My cock does look huge after though since the tissue is all inflammed and red.
 
I do it like once a week during dry times to keep myself under control.
 
I normally masturbate daily sometimes multiple times. My girlfriend keeps me plenty busy so I end up skipping days when she is here.
 
not really an adherent to the chi philosophy but i know that i feel some serious energy build up when i don't wank for a while. if i get a night out after a week of nothing but piss passing through my urethra, i'll be a great deal more assertive than if i had a wank shortly prior to.
 
motherofearth said:
I'm going to sound like a sexual infidel, a coital philistine, certainly not a brash wank artist, when I ask, as a 26 year old male, should I be masturbating 3-5 times a day? Should I reserve it, ya know, in light of that whole chi theory? Or should, I not start a thread, and just listen to my biology? I'm about a week clean from a pretty severe heroin/cocaine habit, and I'm exercising again which typically rushes my libido and blood flow. I'm apprehensive to ask, but does masturbating excessively (whatever that means) diminish ones vivacity? Help SLR....
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Yeah bro that's way to much, I understand your happy you can do it but save some juic for the tank bro 2-3 times is more than enough.
 
I rarely masturbate, the main times I'd jack off is if a female I'm with requested me to.

Lately I've been getting 2 ejaculations per day with my GF.
 
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