whiteroom67
Bluelighter
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- Apr 5, 2014
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I am just going off what you said and now you are backing out of the "I know all/everything about everybody" statements into "everybody has their own top of the pyramid".
But then go right back into handing down dogmatic reasons why everyone is surely miserable at the top of their pyramid, none of which you have actually experienced.
As I was starting to say before, you have limited your pyramid by placing yourself at the top of it and now you see what is at the top without bothering to climb one. Perhaps you are missing something else entirely unexpected by doing so.
I think you're missing the point. I don't know everything about everyone/everything, and I don't know what is at the top of everyone's pyramids... I never said that. But I do know there are many people out there trying to climb these theoretical pyramids who WILL find nothing at the top. There is no dogma here. My point is that many people, including myself in the past, are trying to attain something that is a false happiness, when really true happiness comes from within. I spent years working toward a life path that I felt was never suited for me, because my parents, their friends, my friends, society in general, expected me to go that route. I found myself working toward a life that involved such-and-such a career, marriage and kids (which thankfully at this point in my life I haven't done), a white picket fence, this, that, all the "expected" steps of life in our culture/society, rather than doing what my gut told me would have been right for me all along. What I am also saying is that many others follow that same mistake because of the same reasons - what's "expected" of them by those around them. So, for your information, I have climbed a pyramid, at least the one involving a job/career, I have made it, and there is nothing there - so don't try to tell me about my life, my experience climbing my pyramid or what I missed out on, because you know nothing about me or my life.
Finding yourself and doing what makes you happy is all, and at that, there is no more "climbing". Once someone chooses what truly makes them happy, once they figure out their vocation, that IS the top of the so-called "pyramid", but in that sense, there is no pyramid to climb really, because you are already there. It's already being at the top of it. So I will put it this way instead... instead of people thinking they need to "climb the pyramid" to attain increased power, wealth or whatever, anything external that they think will make them happy, they can already theoretically be at the top of their "pyramid" by immediately surrendering to their current situation and start doing what makes them happy from this very second on. Even if you are in an unpleasant situation at the moment, looking at it in a positive light and accepting everything about it will put you at the "top of the pyramid". But there is really no climbing to be done. We are all already there if we accept it. If you sense you have to "climb" the pyramid to get to the top, to get there, you are not accepting your current situation, not being at peace with the present, possibly going in the wrong direction, and will find nothing when you finally think you "get there".
We can all have goals to work toward, and experience and enjoy life as a journey along the way. That is not "climbing the pyramid", that's enjoying the ride, and that itself is already being at the top.
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