Lovesick!!!

[pammy]

Im so happy at this point in life at the moment for a change iv got an amazing man who cares deeply foer me i feel like jelly whenever he touchs me in any way but id reaklly like to hear him say that he loves me?i am dead happy and maybe some people may say that im juyst being silly him saying thse 3 little words but to me it means everything.Iv had a chaotic life since i was ten years old,im thinking that thats why im so insecurte im just petrified that im going to push him awsy has anybody any ideas please ?do i just go with the flow or have a chat and see if he will open up to me about his feelings for me?i love him so so much he takes sucvh good care for me i feel that i really dont deserve to have him in my life.Im so lovesick without him being here with me,we enjoy doing things togheter such as eatching the latest films,playing on the xbox,and just having some fun basically.

 

[izzyj]

Don't push it. I made that mistake many times in the past.Go with the flow and don't come on too strong.Treat him how you would like to be treated and be kind, respectful, patient and tolerant. Good luck, I hope it lasts.

 

[pammy]

@IZZYJ,
Thankyou for your advice ill take what you have written on board,weve known each other for 18 months now and never had an argument,wen are best friends more than anything i suppose but i know i fell for him big time.Im pretty certain that hes got some feelings hidden within himself for me i feel really wanted and loved for the first time in my whole life,ill hang on i thin k i dont want to spoil anything i could end up scaring him away from me and that would most definately kill me i know that hes my soul mate thankyou once again izzyj take care fo now pammie x

Don't push it. I made that mistake many times in the past.Go with the flow and don't come on too strong.Treat him how you would like to be treated and be kind, respectful, patient and tolerant. Good luck, I hope it lasts.

 

[Lysis]

pammy, your threads and comments are contradicting. I think you should just chill, have some fun, and avoid over-thinking it. If you are infatuated with him, that's perfectly normal, but don't jump the gun and get overly paranoid.

Be yourself, because that's what you will be in 6 months after the honeymoon period is over, and no amount of trying to be someone/something else will change that in the future. If he doesn't like you, well, that happens and you're better off with someone who appreciates you.