love

[OverRide]

hi i'm mike I'm new to blue light.
ever sit down and wonder why people do what they do? pairents beat their children. Men will take on more then one lover. But really gets me is when you see a girl and watch from a distance while she interacts with a guy who seems like a really nice guy and like he cares a lot about her. But as we all know for some odd reason the good guy always gets shit on. Then you look at society, some of the worlds smartest people are poor as hell. Why is there no love for the people who should mean the most in our lives?
just a thought,
Mike
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~never touch a raver girl with love, it means not to them~

 

[lilygirl]

well, first, welcome to bluelight

and to answer your question, yes, i have wondered about things like that. I've witnessed many horrible things in the world firsthand. What we have to realize is that sadness makes the news and pain is noticed. When we open the paper we see murders and natural disasters... there's no "special people" or posititivety. Our society focusses on the bad and we can't help but see it surrounding us. Don't let it depress you. Yes, there's bad in the world and there are people doing bad things, but everyone has their reasons. Try to see the good in people and in life.
Sorry, i went off on a random tangent =) i hope that answered your question
~lil
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"you will get this chance but once, don't let simple shit get you down"
therapy is expensive, poppin bubble wrap is cheap. you decide.
sn~ sparkleylily

 

[Mantis]

OverRide,
my good man don't worry about it. People are fucked up sometimes and they do fucked up things. Believe me, I know first hand. But let's not get into that. What you must see is what made them do it. Because as most know free will is a fraud. You just gotta look at it. Analize it, and let things run there course. Just make sure you draw a line as to when to forgive and when to raise hell. Everyone deserves a second chance. But not everyone deserves a third.
And welcome to Bluelight

it's all about the fun,
Jeff
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~If it's fake it's still too much fun to stop~
~Sometimes I look around me to only wonder why the people are truely there~
~don't date ravers~

 

[E-girl]

nice to have you here.
people, no matter what sex they are, will hurt other people. there's a song that goes "Don't know what you've got til it's gone" and its the truth. the only way to learn about heartache, is to be heartbroken at least once in your life. its easy to take someone for granted, because life has a way of complicating even the best relationships.
being new to the board, you have not had to experience the soap opera that is my life. "Words" is my hideout from the rest of my life, but in my words you will see a world of endless heartache. Without boring you with the details, let me summarize, and maybe this will answer your question.
my fiance was the best thing i had in my life. when we lived in Hazleton, everything was great. when we moved to Wilkes-Barre to "do something with our lives," it all changed. between college and work, i took for granted that he would always be there, when i was too busy. i realize now, i could have made more time for him. and in a way, that's how i lost him. him? he found comfort in a life that he did not share with me... a life that meant sneaking out with other girls and lying about it. that's how he lost me. we both blamed it on each other.
now looking back, i feel like its my fault. like if i had been there a little more, he wouldnt have needed all those other girls. but the more i think about it, there's no excuse for what he did.
people will hurt each other. and they will regret it. but it only makes them stronger...
i think that when i finally get over what he did to me, i will be a much smarter person in my life, and when i meet someone else that i can really care for, i will make sure that i tell them everyday how special they are to me. cuz no one deserves to feel like this.
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E-girl
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