Lost

[spaceangel]

If you had a love and lost it was it love or just lies? Can love be forgotten about? I hate lies but I still love him I cannot help but think he's lied. Does this make me stupid or just a fool in love?
Help Me
Love SA

 

[mirabii]

I believe that love is true even after it is lost. Feelings are strange and ever changing creatures that can be insatiable and curious one minute, and sleeping the next. Maybe he never did love you in the same way that you love(d) him. I keep reminding myself that it's better to be out of love than in a love that is not perfect - would you dare to miss the real thing?
Don't forget about the good things - those things about your relationship that built you up. Someone saying your beautiful and then leaving you doesn't mean that you're not beautiful.
Lastly. You are not stupid. You seem to me to be an open hearted person - a gem in my mind cos you don't find ppl like that much anymore..
Cheer up, someone going leaves an open door for someone better to come along!
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if you found out you were dreaming, would you want to wake up?
Please don't interrupt me. That last sentence took a lot of effort to think of and now I have to think of another one.

 

[zero9zero]

i'm supposing he lied to you, or you think he lied to you about something?
if that's the case.. the first thing i would do is confirm the fact that he lied. confront him on the issue, and see what he says. You can tell when people are lying.. just look at his eyes.. it will tell you all you need to know.
as far as loving him.. if you still feel you love him.. just do this.. ask yourself why.
sit down and write down a list of reasons you love him.. it sounds silly.. but it works.
good luck,
dave

 

[spaceangel]

But how can I look in his eyes when there all Red and bloodshot I can't see him I can only see the drugs.!!!?????
Love always to all
Love*********