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live with a gay dude,and im not gay

DrunkardsDream said:
If they have sex with a guy then they're not hetero or straight to begin with. It doesn't make them gay but they're at least bisexual. Some gay men need the fantasy or pipe dream of having sex with an actual hetero/straight guy but these guys have issues with their sexuality and relating to other bi and gay men.
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they are living as straight men and had occasional gay sex. they are not having repeated relationships with men and women. so really its just semantics. i have had sex with a woman but i'm definitely not into that except for when i'm high on rare (every few years) occasions. doesn't make me bisexual because when i get like that for an evening i only fancy women so its like being temporarily straight which is bizarre
 
I know someone who fucked a girl to have sex with a guy--he demanded it. The world is such a strange place.

My personal opinion on this thread? I do believe a gay man asking a straight man for sex, a man asking a lesbian for sex, etc, is sexual harassment. Such behavior is shit, it cunts me off, it is beyond the pale. Think outside yourself, I say. It is not hard to get laid, try the internet!
 
Did the OP agree to fuck dude or convince dude they were dating and taking it slow? I thought he was just offered a place to stay by a guy who seems to have a crush on him.
 
soundsystem00 said:
Yeah I lived with a gay guy in west Hollywood. It sucked. He fell in love with me and called my grandparents and snitched on me cuz I was out with this girl. He told them I spent all there money on pot.

Not to mention he had gay dudes over constantly. Trying to convince me I'm homosexual and all that other weird shit gay ppl do.
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-> bobl
 
glad my peeps got my back here, because it was the only place i had that i could call 'home',knowing my track-record of where i've been and what i've gone through..i mean read my blog cmon now..i mean really?i'm from the deep-south,and if my family were to even find out about me staying with a gay dude they would disown my ass in a heartbeat. it is what it is,hell because i've burnt those bridges i wonder if they knew that i would windup at a gay guys house.
 
D's said:
i'm from the deep-south,and if my family were to even find out about me staying with a gay dude they would disown my ass in a heartbeat. it is what it is,hell because i've burnt those bridges i wonder if they knew that i would windup at a gay guys house.
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Haven't they already pretty much disowned you because of your drug use? I'm not trying to be an ass hole, just legitimately curious. I'd think that if they haven't already disowned you, because of them disliking your drug use, I doubt where you're living now is a real issue.
 
D's said:
glad my peeps got my back here, because it was the only place i had that i could call 'home',knowing my track-record of where i've been and what i've gone through..i mean read my blog cmon now..i mean really?i'm from the deep-south,and if my family were to even find out about me staying with a gay dude they would disown my ass in a heartbeat. it is what it is,hell because i've burnt those bridges i wonder if they knew that i would windup at a gay guys house.
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Don't sweat it, D's. You have so much talent. I remember you when I first came back to BL and you used to have me laughing so hard from your posts. I'm just a stupid Internet chick, but I really hope you don't waste it with this stuff. You seem like a cool guy, and it sucks reading this stuff from you. I hope you are able to stabilize your situation to something where you can relax and feel secure in your own home.
 
D's said:
so i live with a gay dude..and im not gay.. this is the only place i have to live atm. having issues within myself about this,so not trying to lead him on thinking im some sissy.which i havnt,ive told him that 'i want to take things slow'.
shits fucking with my head so bad where i'm about to fucking go off the deep-end. dunno if anyone experienced this before, or what. but could use some kinda advice on something! plz
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yo what the hell man - have you honestly been smoking that ice? whatever's going on, you deserve to get kicked out on your ear if you been telling him you "just wanna take it slow" instead of just saying you need a place to crash. BUT your posting in general is fucking ambiguous and very scattered so I will just say - maybe being a hobo for a little while will do you some good. Teach you about life and how to live on your own, off your own back, make life work for you - BECAUSE YOU WORKED AT IT.Silly D's :)
 
I cant image having proper man/bro type friendship with gay,thats like "hey bro,check out that sexy ass over there... oh I forgot you like hairy choco donuts not sugar walls,nevermind..."
 
^...I talk about guys with my lesbian friends. Quite frankly it changes absolutely nothing. They can still agree if a guy's hot or not without being attracted to him. It's the same for gay men. That's a bit of a dumb reason not to be friends with them.
 
I agree with Pagey on that. My ex gf had a friend who was very gay, but he was cool to hang out with. We used to do alot of dope with him and his SO. He would talk about woman he though were attractive. I guess it depends on the individual. Any demographic can be annoying.
 
DOB said:
I cant image having proper man/bro type friendship with gay,thats like "hey bro,check out that sexy ass over there... oh I forgot you like hairy choco donuts not sugar walls,nevermind..."
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I probably couldn't be friends with someone who had that view. I really don't like homophobic people.

Many people can still find the same/opposite gender attractive. My straight female friends can find other females attractive. My straight male friends can find other males attractive. I can say to my friends (straight, gay, bi, female, male) "that guy is attractive" and they can agree even if they aren't sexually attracted to guys.

I can't believe that people are still homophobic these days.

To the OP - don't lead the guy on. You should find somewhere else to live.
 
D's I hope you're all good man. You should lay off the gear for awhile, save your cash and catch a bus to another place where you can start new again.

Then you can mentally recover and have some dosh to get more than fifty miles away, definitely out of the state like a new beginning.
 
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