Legit reason to break up?

[Ninae]

Most of us with some experience know what we like. But I feel bad for him, I think he feels even worse than me. He talked about marriage and children and everything.

See, that's my strong point. Making a guy fall in love and break his heart.

 

[Ninae]

50 words or less tell me how you can be SLAMMED up against a wall.

...softly...

and in a loving way.

That wouldn't so much be about love, but about passion, and masculine-feminine attraction. Great energy high. But for me, if I love someone it's present in every sexual interaction from my side.

 

[iheartthisthread]

But for me, if I love someone

This may be the answer you're looking for.

 

[nuttynutskin]

I think men would be getting a lot more sex if you were a bit more like us sexually.

Puh-lease... Based on this and your other thread it sounds like you just hate guys. I'm not saying this guy is the right guy, but you come across as misandrinistic, confused, and high maintenance.

50 words or less tell me how you can be SLAMMED up against a wall.

...softly...

and in a loving way.

LMAO

 

[Ninae]

If I hated men they wouldn't hurt me so much.

And nothing in this has been misandrinistic. My point was that most guys are too high-maintainance for me and I should just cool it.

What I said about getting more sex is a realistic fact most women would vouch for.

 

[iheartthisthread]

So how often is the right amount of sex; provided it is delivered in a love making way, from your perspective as a woman ninae?

 

[Noodle]

You can break it off for any flippant reason you want.

It is your right as a woman.

Be aware that a white knight that is 100 percent compatible is a fantasy not worth holding out for.


Life is entirely too short to waste on waiting for Jesus to drop out the sky.

 

[Ninae]

So how often is the right amount of sex; provided it is delivered in a love making way, from your perspective as a woman ninae?

Unlimited

That's what's sad about it, I have a high sexual drive.

 

[iheartthisthread]

Unlimited

That's what's sad about it, I have a high sexual drive.

i'm gonna go out on a limb and guess that you are very attractive and as a rule guys just want to get in your pants even before getting to know you as a person. Is that a fair statement?

 

[Ninae]

Well, it varies how attractive guys find me, at least guys who like blonde hair/blue eyes find me attractive.

But my thing is more that I can win a guy's heart and make him fall in love easily. That's kind of my speciality. I'm not so much the type they want to use and dump, more the type they want to keep and love.

But this only sets up great expectations for me. Like, if a guy is blissed out in love with you after 3 days it tends to make you expect a lot. On all levels, also sexually. So it there's a lot of ups and downs for me.

 

[iheartthisthread]

Do you think you are "in love" with falling in love? That is a pretty fantastic feeling. I know a woman here that told she likes making guys fall for her but quickly loses interest after that.

 

[h3lp]

I know a lot of girls like this.

They aren't trying to be mean or inconsiderate but they expect guys to understand that quick physical relationships usually don't go anywhere.

 

[Ninae]

Do you think you are "in love" with falling in love? That is a pretty fantastic feeling. I know a woman here that told she likes making guys fall for her but quickly loses interest after that.

Aren't everyone?

The last one actually lasted 3 1/2 years.

So I don't lose interest as soon as I get them - I just want us to be happy together.

 

[iheartthisthread]

So, I guess what you have to ask yourself is "what makes me happy"

I went as far as writing a list of things I was looking for in a woman. It helped me realize what was important to me and what things were not as important as I once thought.

 

[DrinksWithEvil]

if i wrote a list of what i though was important

1.blowjobs
2.blowjobs.
3.let me be alone.
4.blowjobs.
5.drinks

i guess thats typical. but true

 

[iheartthisthread]

Lol dwe. You'll have a better grip on what you want when you've had a healthy dose of what you don't want.

 

[Ninae]

if i wrote a list of what i though was important

1.blowjobs
2.blowjobs.
3.let me be alone.
4.blowjobs.
5.drinks

i guess thats typical. but true

Hey, that's not so bad. At least giving blowjobs is better than being used like a whore by some mysogonist. Not that I have, but there are enough who.

 

[DrinksWithEvil]

Lol dwe. You'll have a better grip on what you want when you've had a healthy dose of what you don't want.

oh ive had a dose, like my brother fucking the love of my life in my own bed when i was at NA meeting

 

[iheartthisthread]

That's brutal dude. I'd flip my shit for real.

 

[DrinksWithEvil]

i flipped out, but they said i was crazy, and i knew what happend, my bed was fuckedup and they were acting weird

then a year later she got drunk and told me the truth that she fucked my brother multiple times in my bed.


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