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Ladies: Are you less attracted to a guy if you know he has a girlfriend?

B1tO'RoughJack said:
^ Totally agree. If you can show a woman just by being you, that you are a better match than her fella, then I think you should if you're into them too (Having said that I've just answered a question in my own head. :D ).

Who cares if they're attached? If they're attached and not happy, just make them leave the other person by being yourself, and dropping heavy hints that you're into them, but not making any plays for them (I find that a bit wrong making people cheat, it makes most people feel dirty and confused) - I wouldn't put a whole lot of effort in, as yes there are plenty more fish in the sea, PLENTY, and also people in unhappy relationships can really use you as an ego boost but not be interested in anything more long term, but some effort, so they see that you are a better and a good match for them, break up with their other half, and you can be there when they get back on their feet.

You can't steal what is not someone else's possession. People are not possessions. That's why I have a big problem with people who call a lass a homewrecker, or a boyfriend stealer - who the fuck do these people think these women are? People burglars?
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Yeah, people aren't possessions. I'm pretty open minded but even I think it's wrong to go after someone who has a boyfriend/girlfriend (if you know it). I don't want other girls hitting on my boyfriend all the time, so I would not hit on other girls boyfriends. It's respect to both people. If one of the people in the relationship is unhappy - they need to end the relationship. It shouldn't be the "other person" that convinces them too.
 
I'm actually more attracted to Men who I know to be involved with another woman, sometimes that tendency kind of sucks. However I do like a good chase when it comes to men, and I think that it's incredibly hot when a guy talks about his girl. In fact, I almost get more attracted to guys with kids as well.
 
Girls always come out of the wood works when you are taken. There was this 1 girl, and everytime I would get single, she would have a bf. She would get single I would have a gf. Long story short, I fucked her younger sister. Close enough.

It is really annoying though girls are that way.
 
^guys are the same.

I actually used to have a guy like that in my life and we always kind of liked
and flirted with eachother but we were on opposite dating schedules :) turns out I wasn't missing out on much because he hasn't done anything with his life in the meantime, but still.

The laws of attraction blow
 
Nothing like a bit of competition. I enjoy pursuing the challenging tasks also, one is attempting to pick up a lesbian.
 
I think it has to do with the whole feast and famine thing to an extent.

For a guy atleast when he has a girlfriend/regular sex and is happy he is full and projects that.
Women pick up on that and want that.
 
Maybe you just have certain pheromones that you don't when you are in a relationship. I really don't know.
 
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