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Bluelighter
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If anybody has seen the south park episode titled "Two naked men in a hot tub" or something of the sort, this diatribe should ring a bell.
Although almost nobody is 100% straight or gay, or perfectly inbetween, we attempt to use labels to explain sexuality. In pre-Christian Roman society, everybody was assumed to be bisexual and your orientation was determined based on your preference of being dominant or submissive.
Another alternative is the Kinsey scale, which rates sexuality from 1 (exclusively heterosexual) to 7 (exclusively homosexual). While this provides over twice as many options, I feel like a grid, with preference of gender on one axis, and preference of domination being on the other, would be the most accurate way to label sexual orientation.
While I can only have emotions towards a woman, it is possible for me to be sexually attracted to a more feminine man, although I may only find a "very attractive" man to be equally attractive as a "somewhat attractive" woman. Although I would not date a man, I have messed around in a group setting with my girlfriend. and enjoyed it. Most of my close friends, even those who identify as totally gay or straight, admit to not being on the farthest possible side of the spectrum, but choose to identify as "straight" or "gay" rather than "bi" because they would not want to hook up with someone they could not possibly feel emotions towards, or because that part of them is "small" and "negligible".
I feel like those of us who fall between the cracks of the three labels are misrepresented even though we represent a majority. Westernization and christianity are the primary culprits that encourage people to attempt to suppress their same-sex desires.
Although almost nobody is 100% straight or gay, or perfectly inbetween, we attempt to use labels to explain sexuality. In pre-Christian Roman society, everybody was assumed to be bisexual and your orientation was determined based on your preference of being dominant or submissive.
Another alternative is the Kinsey scale, which rates sexuality from 1 (exclusively heterosexual) to 7 (exclusively homosexual). While this provides over twice as many options, I feel like a grid, with preference of gender on one axis, and preference of domination being on the other, would be the most accurate way to label sexual orientation.
While I can only have emotions towards a woman, it is possible for me to be sexually attracted to a more feminine man, although I may only find a "very attractive" man to be equally attractive as a "somewhat attractive" woman. Although I would not date a man, I have messed around in a group setting with my girlfriend. and enjoyed it. Most of my close friends, even those who identify as totally gay or straight, admit to not being on the farthest possible side of the spectrum, but choose to identify as "straight" or "gay" rather than "bi" because they would not want to hook up with someone they could not possibly feel emotions towards, or because that part of them is "small" and "negligible".
I feel like those of us who fall between the cracks of the three labels are misrepresented even though we represent a majority. Westernization and christianity are the primary culprits that encourage people to attempt to suppress their same-sex desires.