Kurt Cobain Appreciation Thread

Do you like Kurt Cobain


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^ no, i absolutely agree with the fact that mass appeal does not mean artistic worth!

i suppose what i'm arguing here is a bit confused - but i think that nirvana's massive popularity has meant that people discount them as a great band.

my favourite artists of the last 10+ years have been from my immensely isolated australian hometown...so i don't pretend to have any kind of grasp of what's going on with the rest of the world or some kind of global musical perspective. on the whole though, i hate what i hear so i ignore it. not all music, but generally what passes for "rock" circa early 21st century.

what i was referring to, and probably didn't articulate very well, is that we don't see BIG rock bands any more.
what i mean is real rock'n'roll bands that create a huge stir. like, you know - the beatles, the rolling stones, jimi hendrix, the sex pistols - bands that excited the young, worried or shocked the older generations and wrote songs that defined eras. music that made everything you were listening to a month before you heard it seem redundant.

yes, i am sort of talking about popularity here, but not really.
the sex pistols were hated by more people than they had fans, for example. they weren't 1977's equivalent of justin beiber (or whatever the thing is now?) - they were offensive to most, without (arguably) setting out to do this at all. they just expressed themselves, their culture, their generation - and what came out was pretty horrifying to most people at the time.

what i'm getting at more than this is that we as a (western) culture are not shocked by rock'n'roll any more. it has lost its teeth over the decades, and the devil's music is now something retirees grew up with.

as far as this goes, i would still argue that nirvana may well have been the last of the great rock'n'roll bands. i realise how obnoxious that statement might be, but i'm not talking about all the great bands i still get excited about, the bands i get crushed to go and see up close or the bands i play shows with and adore. or the bands i am a part of that spend money we can ill afford recording albums of songs we love to play.

i'm not strictly talking about record sales, popularity or household-name status either - but i suppose i am talking about notoriety.
it's pretty impossible to achieve the kind of revolutionary status that used to exist in rock'n'roll - it is no longer a 'foreign' music feared by white society as 'debauched' or overtly sexual. it is no longer new, it is no longer dangerous.

the kind of exposure that existed in the halcyon days of the recording industry has been diluted so much by a) the collapse of record companies/sales and b) the mass of information now available at the click of a mouse. the combination of these two things means that the only music that makes it into the public arena is that which is incredibly safe and pandering to a corporate vision of musical entertainment. all the auto-tuned pap that floods the airwaves is testament to this; the latest generic offering from the latest smooth-sleazebag celebrity.

the upside for people like me who like their music weird is that artists of all kinds are accessible to whatever fringe dwellers may wish to seek them out. no longer are kids ignorant of bands like the velvet underground or the buzzcocks - great swathes of rock'n'roll music history has opened up to all of us through the internet. albums that used to be only available through mail order - or out of print for years - can suddenly be streamed (or downloaded) by anyone who wants it.

but what this means is that the power of music to reach a generation of kids who feel the same way (as the artist and their fans) has been diluted. the commerce of small-time labels and limited-appeal bands is easily supported by the online arena and word-of-mouth promotion. radio stations have no need to play anything outside of their desired playlists because very little music made by/for 'outsiders' (as nirvana's music truly was, pre-nevermind) because it never makes it onto the charts.

i don't doubt that there are amazing, groundbreaking, memorable songwriters revolutionising rock music as we speak - but unless our ears are close to the ground at the right moment, we may very well miss out on hearing about it. this is the curse - and the joy - of the digital age.
kurt cobain died in 1994, a couple of years before the internet went 'mainstream'. those were different times. i certainly don't believe he was the last great rock'n'roll songwriter, but i certainly think he and his band were the last great rock'n'roll phenomenon (as we know it).

i apologise for coming off as a cantankerous bastard, but i don't think we should dismiss artists because they have become a symbol for disaffected youth or heartthrobs of the depressed set. it's cool if people don't care for nirvana's music - as i said, i don't listen to it any more - but as a social phenomenon, i can't think of any examples of rock'n'roll hysteria since then. unless it is manufactured hype, of course...
 
I guess its a case of different strokes. Although I do agree with much that you've said. I guess music can be seen as more personal now. If the listener chooses for it to be that way. I mean what's the point of shocking the world with music anyway? Is that what a lot of bands are aiming for? I would imagine they are not. If it's a flash in the pan it won't stick. If its something that a listener can identify with then I'd imagine a lot of the time that is what the musician is aiming for, along with self expression playing another major role in that. Maybe it wasn't what everyone was talking about for a small period of time. But it's good enough for you that you'll continue listening to it for a long time. Who really cares what the world thinks of your favorite bands? Who really cares how their story goes down in history if its something that they enjoy?
 
i guess 'shock' can be an evolutionary thing. rock and roll (to me) is something that is/was revolutionary, and i like the idea that something new can change your outlook on what came before it.
i suppose all this stuff is very, very subjective though. i just get irked by people saying stuff is 'highly overrated' when it probably stirred things up more than anything in the 20 years since. sorry for the rants ;)
 
i guess 'shock' can be an evolutionary thing. rock and roll (to me) is something that is/was revolutionary, and i like the idea that something new can change your outlook on what came before it.

That was true in the fifties, but by the time Nirvana got big there was really nothing 'revolutionary' about what they were doing - they just joined the ongoing fusion of Punk/Metal/Rock that was Grunge and hit the big time. While this may be subjective, most Grunge enthusiasts agree that Nirvana, while being culturally relevant, weren't exactly the best band of their kind - their music was very "raw"-sounding to general audiences, and had catchy, almost poppy melodies, but they were kind of unremarkable when compared to the rest of the guys from Seattle. I think Nirvana gets a lot of undeserved credit when it came to their supposed 'innovation', because the only real innovative thing about them was that they were able to translate their outsider attitude and appearance into mass appeal.

i suppose all this stuff is very, very subjective though. i just get irked by people saying stuff is 'highly overrated' when it probably stirred things up more than anything in the 20 years since. sorry for the rants ;)

It was hardly a cultural revolution in the same way that Rock n' Roll was in the fifties; it was just another temporary fad that came and went as soon as boy bands got popular. What did Nirvana really "stir up"? A bunch of kids finding a new band to outlet their angst?
 
^i absolutely agree with this.
the velvet underground, the monks, mc5, the stooges were revolutionary in their time. then came the next generation of truly revolutionary bands with shit like chrome, birthday party, big black, killing joke, swans etc. in the early eighties. after that though i can hardly think of a band i'd call 'revolutionary'. nirvana certainly was not, and they invented or changed nothing. i mean every single melvins album is better than anything by nirvana. or take jesus lizard's liar. not really innovative, but that album is so fierce, and so uncompromising that it superior to every nirvana record. to me they were a band that played some decent songs that get blown completely the fuck out of proportion just because they became so hugely succesful.
edit: in fact i could easily name thirty albums off the top of my head that outdo nirvana in every regard. probably more.
 
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^ good points all.
i have limited time to reply, but from my perspective as a young'un in the early 90s, nirvana's acceptance into the mainstream (against their will?) seemed to change the mainstream. this probably isn't revolutionary - you're right - but it isn't something i've witnessed in music since. but i'm not impressed by the hype, it's cobain's songwriting that i always dug. i guess my perspective on this may be skewed by nirvana being the first band that really changed the way i listened to music, but they have a particular place in the chronology of rock'n'roll.
kurt was able to give some really ignored artists a name (the vaselines and daniel johnston [again] come to mind) and i guess i've always felt a certain kind of respect for this.
blown out of all proportion, sure. but what does 'overrated' really mean anyway? cheers.
 
well, by 'overrated' i mean that their music, while catchy and definitely head and shoulders above most of the stuff the gets played in the charts then and since then, in no way changed music. the bands i listed, and a lot of the short wave of no-wave bands like teenage jesus & the jerks and james chance & the contortionists, although completely obscure, did a lot more to change uncompromising, underground music even though they existed only briefly. early grunge is remarkably similar to noise rock, and for example the first melvins album and black flags my war are generally credited as the records that got the whole sludge thing going. these albums were revolutionary in some regard. but nirvana just had a knack for writing catchy songs, and i mean if cobain had really valued anonymity and 'staying true' (whatever that means) that much, he would have made different music. i don't think that nirvana's music was consciously commercial, it's just it was incredibly poppy and accesible. so their success should have not surprised them much. you play poppy and accesible songs that the mainstream likes, well. then you might just get famous.
fun fact: buzz osbourne of the melvins was cobain's guitar teacher for a while.
edit: i omitted flipper from the list of what inspired sludge. my bad. they were definitely up there.
 
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Ok, kurt (& nirvana) are not/were not overated - their music was raw & rough, lyrics were either total genius or a total mish-mash of 'yeah, that'll do' - I'd like to think genius, but, well, they were probably just thrown together, kurt was an ok guitarist (ok might be pushing it!), kurt did write amazing music tho imo - simple, but stunning, they were passionate about the music & kurt had his issues & demons he was battling. Added together, their music spoke to a hell of a lot of people around the world, a lot of people didn't perceive the music as kurt intended, but it still spoke to them as they took their own meaning from it - which tends be the nature of music, people perceive it personally, if they can't personally relate to it, they don't like it (or that's how it is for me). Just because you didn't like nirvanas music or kurt as a person or disagree with how he ended his life (which shouldn't come into it really - I think Ed Millibands a spineless prick, but I'll still be voting labour - point being, just cos you don't like the songwriter/singer/guitarist who uve probably never met, you shouldn't allow that to cloud ur judgement on any songs by them you listen to) Even that said, if you really dislike nirvana, you don't get/like the music & don't like what uve heard about Kurt, that doesn't mean u can say nirvana &/or kurt are overated, because the fact nirvanas music & quite often Kurt (be it his history of difficult childhood/depression/bullying/whatever) the music he created as part of nirvana & the hope that he gave to young people with problems like his own (though this probs wasn't his intention), that touched so many different people from different countries, shows that, just because he/his music didn't affect you, doesn't mean it isn't great music. There are more musically talented, yet overlooked, bands that are still great - but for some reason there music didn't connect with so many people. I am not kurt or nirvanas greatest fan, I like some of their songs, some I think are shit, but I appreciate they deserved the recognition they got (though I think kurt would have rather they didn't receive it) even if only for the fact so many people connected with their music for whatever reason.
Similary, no great rock & roll since nirvana? Just because in ur opinion no one has been making great rock music since the death of Kurt, doesn't mean that there hasn't been. If a band/person is creating music that even just 1 person can relate or connect to, then that should be great in itself, someone is experiencing pleasure from listening to it, isn't that the point? Create music that people get enjoyment from listening to? There's loads of bands around that I can't stand, can't see why people think the musics so great - but I wouldn't say oh they're shite, they're overated - I'd say am not into them or I don't like there music, but I will say they must have something for others to enjoy it & connect.
 
^ good points all.
i have limited time to reply, but from my perspective as a young'un in the early 90s, nirvana's acceptance into the mainstream (against their will?) seemed to change the mainstream. this probably isn't revolutionary - you're right - but it isn't something i've witnessed in music since. but i'm not impressed by the hype, it's cobain's songwriting that i always dug. i guess my perspective on this may be skewed by nirvana being the first band that really changed the way i listened to music, but they have a particular place in the chronology of rock'n'roll.
kurt was able to give some really ignored artists a name (the vaselines and daniel johnston [again] come to mind) and i guess i've always felt a certain kind of respect for this.
blown out of all proportion, sure. but what does 'overrated' really mean anyway? cheers.

I have fond memories of 1990/1991 and Nirvana. I remember receiving a copy on tape from the first girl I knew who had dyed pink hair and a shaved vagina and I played the shit out of that during my summer holiday.(I didn't get to plow the shit out of the girl unfortunately as she was 15 :() I also had the good fortune to see them live supporting the Violent Femmes later that Summer. We hired a houseboat and managed to anchor right next to the stage as they played at Fisherman's Wharf. To be fair I was in no fine state to comment but they were a shemozzle and I didn't really have any heart felt thoughts of greatness.

With regards to their legacy I only see them as a small bubble in a sea of rocking froth from that era. Personally I believe the Foo Fighters continued to push creative boundries after Nirvana in such a way that for me they are a far greater influence. Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, RATM even the Chilli Peppers all leave behind a larger musical and cultural foot print from that time. Maybe I would feel different if their lifespan wasn't so short.

Social commentary of that time is perhaps a bigger influence on how Kurt and Nirvana are now viewed. It was the beginning of describing Gen X and the differences of my generation by baby boomers that still continues today. Without the internet it was perhaps easier to brand every flannel and Dr Martin wearing teenager as a Kurt disciple. Today it is easier to view different subsets as more distinct because even a small band can develop a strong following with relatively minimal exposure. At the time if you weren't on MTV or playing the more alternative festivals you were so under ground that you were insignificant.
 
if cobain had really valued anonymity and 'staying true' (whatever that means) that much, he would have made different music. i don't think that nirvana's music was consciously commercial, it's just it was incredibly poppy and accesible. so their success should have not surprised them much. you play poppy and accesible songs that the mainstream likes, well. then you might just get famous.

i think this debate has run its course, but i just wanted to mention that i think the idea that writing catchy pop songs is appealing to a mass audience is grossly overstated. simple songs with melodies that catch your ear do not equate to commercialism or intended popularity IMO.
i really think its a misnomer, like a dichotomy between "noise rock" and "pop".
i suppose that is what i always loved about nirvana; the ability to blend melodic songwriting and noisy discordant sounds, like the buzzcocks or the jesus and mary chain or something.
i hear what you're saying though - i love bands like teenage jesus and the jerks and james chance and the contortions as well, but i suppose it is the attitude that a song with a nice melody = "accessible" = popular = commercial = sellout that i don't really dig. too simplistic and black-and-white for me. there are heaps of massively overlooked bands that write sweet melodies, i suppose i'm more drawn to this than the more testosterone-fuelled guitar bands, even though i get a real kick out of the sound of overdriven valves and feedback harmonics.

i love both noise rock and finely crafted pop music and don't wish to draw a line in the sand between them.
 
He was what he was. But I think the different thing about music these days is that we have the internet so unlike previous generations we can go back in time and listen to whatever and current music isn't that relevant. Elvis was maybe the most amazing, but there are a lot of bands that had great lead singers that really caught your attention, like the Alphaville singer I especially like. I prefer the ones that were like natural idols and not manufactured like these days.
 
i suppose it is the attitude that a song with a nice melody = "accessible" = popular = commercial = sellout that i don't really dig. too simplistic and black-and-white for me.

Agreed, because that attitude is stupidly close minded and just plain wrong. Catchiness used to be a necessary device in folk songs dating back to the ancient Greeks. It's how people could remember long long poems and stories without writing them down, and there's a reason why we enjoy it (I don't understand the reason why people pretend not to enjoy it though)
 
For all you guys who hate cobain as a person give the documentary Kurt Cobain:About a Son a shot the video is totally unrelated but it's just a long interview. It's on Netflix and YouTube I'm sure. Put it on while you're cruising the net he is a really humble and seemingly cool guy in my opinion

Rest in peace

In utero and Bleach are my favorite then incestiside and Nevermind
 
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look, there is a part of me who will always "love" kurt. i don't know know of any other weird first reaction to music heard other than when i got yellow submarine as a gift when was 8 and heard eleanor rigby. but there is a certain teen fetishdom from the likes of sid vicious, say, that are tied to kurt now.
.............i was seriously going to continue this until i realized i was drunk and retarded
 
This has been a long thread and I am sorry to say that I did not take time to read all the posts. What started infuriating me were all the posts about Nirvana being overrated. This is a thread about Kurt Cobain not Nirvana (though it is difficult to speak of one without the other).

I had the privilege of seeing Nirvana on their first major tour in Seattle. I almost died, literally, nearly crushed to death. I was at the very front when they took the stage the surge of people behind me left me like a rag doll trying to find a way to safety. I thought If I fell I would die. The energy coming from the crowd and music was so electric that my hair was sticking straight out from head and my friend's girlfriend couldn't get over how all the people on the floor of the arena looked like they had been struck by lightening. It was lightening and the single greatest concert I have ever seen and I have seen many incredible bands. Kurt never missed a note, never sang off key standing there in his pajama top and shredded pants. I saw Guns n Posers a few months before and was sickened at how they had lost their edge and succumbed to commercialism. Axel was a complete asshole and Slash just stood around and played scales as fast as he could.

I have seen a lot of bands in clubs, arenas, what have you. I played in bands for years and as a musician, Cobain's influence on the music that followed his is highly underrated. Nirvana hit the scene like a meteor when G n R was king and L.A was the shit. They played music from the gut and throat Along with some of the other bands of their musical community they changed the shape and course of music overnight.

"What the hell is a mosh pit?" I was once asked. I obliged "Here, I'll show you" and I was nearly decapitated. Nirvana's "Come as You Are" had a solo with about 15 notes played over and over. This was after the eighties, 15 notes a second solos, and all the guitar heroes that tried to one up each other. Cobain silenced them pretty damn quickly. Don't get me wrong. I love Eddie VH,Alex Lifeson, Randy Rhoads, and many other unbelievably skilled guitarists. Kurt just played songs and the "turkey solo" began to disappear throughout the nineties.

His voice absolutely blew me away. I remember an interview with Butch Vig who produced "Nevermind" and he was stunned at Kurt's ability to sing with such rasp and emotion while rarely missing a note. Yes, Dave Grohl did some backup singing but Butch Vig demonstrated how he used multi tracks allowing Kurt to sing in 'perfect harmony' with himself on the finished product. Rarely more than a couple of takes for each track.

I lived in Seattle when the whole thing was happening and it was crazy. My friend's and I would go clubbing every weekend and see heaps of bands that were trying to attain fame with the spotlight on Seattle. None of them really made it. I had seen The Melvins, Soundgarden, Mother Love Bone before they became Pearl Jam, and the term "Grunge" was a local term at the time. While those bands were all unique and good they never gave me the jolt that Nirvana did. I am happy that they gained the notoriety they deserved. It was completely unique at the time.

I urge anyone interested in Mr. Cobain to watch the movie "About a Boy" if you really want some insight into what made Kurt, Kurt. It is close to two hours of a few interviews he did with a guy on the phone. There is no Nirvana music played at all in the movie counting out tribute songs. What I didn't know about was his struggle with severe pain in his stomach and a spine that looked like a pretzel. He self medicated and we know the rest.

He never really sought fame, it was thrust on him if you read interviews. Courtney Love was toxic to him IMO.She rode his coattails and I often recall her reading his manifesto at the memorium in Seattle a few days after he died. She kept referring to him as an asshole, son of a bitch, etc. for doing this. Never a mention about his own pain without dismissing it and cursing him for it.

I will never forget where I was when my girlfriend called me to tell me he had killed himself. I was in shock. My God, I lived less than a mile away from his house. I knew it was inevitable but I was never the less, stunned. I will also never forget my bandmate bringing "Bleach" home a few months after its release and saying "Dude, you have to listen to this!". I was blown away at hearing something that seemed so simple but powerful. Nevermind sealed what I already thought was something special, fresh and desperately needed in the music world at the time. It was what I had been waiting for all through the sicky 80's.

Yes there were great bands in the 80's but channels like MTV began making music more image oriented. Bands like the Pixies, Meat Puppets, and Sonic Youth were rarely seen or heard by the general public. Cobain put a capital "A"in Alternative Rock and made it cool to listen to college radio. Cobain once stated that "Smells Like Teen Spirit" was written as a Pixies rip off.

So, to those of you who think Nirvana was overrated, perhaps you are right but you cannot deny the talent and influence Kurt Cobain had on songwriting. It was a talent he probably drew from intense physical and psychological pain. Think about how he changed the way bands write songs now with an emphasis on music from the heart rather than the instrument. That is how I remember Kurt and I believe that is how he would want to be remembered.
 
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I really don't care if they were overrated or not.
That is about other people's opinions. Unrelated to the music itself.
My opinion: Nirvana was a kick-ass group.
I still enjoy their music. Greatly. I find the lyrics powerful and simple - the Zen of punk, if you will.
Their melodies are so catchy, and most of all Kurt's voice was amazing.

However, there is some element of darkness to the lyrics that reminds me of (i.e. seems reflective of/ related to, or makes sense of) Kurt's suicide, and I really don't like it.
I am not a fan of very dark things, in general, with some exceptions.

This morning, I was singing some Nirvana loudly, alone, and when I came to the lyrics "I like you, I'm not gonna crack, I miss you, I'm not gonna crack, I love you, I'm not gonna crack, I'll kill you, I'm not gonna crack" I suddenly felt unable to continue.
I have no interest in singing about killing anyone.
The expression of insanity in that song is remarkable, and powerful, and dark.
I can appreciate it, but I don't want to spend my life focused on such insanity, and darkness.

For similar reasons, I lost interest in Pink Floyd, though I can still appreciate their fine musicianship.
 
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