Can you finish that version of your statement? I'd be interested.
I also don't think it's fair to ask such a question without offering my own answer, to show it isn't baiting or trolling but actual curiosity. Myself, I hate labels or labeling anyone. Trying to describe a group, to me, limits what they may really be or could be. Even for myself, I don't particularly identify any certain way. Others may label me, but they don't know all my views on things, so they'd be wrong. I prefer to change my views based on new facts that I may not have known before.
I think what you said about being labeled and wanting to base your opinions on the information you have is common to most everyone. Though if we really couldn't learn about people based on the groups they identify with advertisers would be way behind in their methods and writing a persuasive speech for a particular audience would be a much more monumental task. Nuance is always present and nobody in a group will agree on everything, but they are bound by fundamental beliefs or experiences that bring them together. If you were selected to be the "diplomat" between the modern world and some lost tribe, you would probably want some background on their culture so that you could properly communicate with them right? I think this is partly why political concepts are so difficult to discuss. For most people they are abstract concepts and there isn't one commonly accepted definition of democracy, or socialism, or fascism., it's almost impossible to discuss without having common-ground definitions to work off of.
To reply to your question, right now Democrat means "anti-reactionary" IMO. It's a bad place to be since it doesn't really stand for much except "fuck trump and anybody else looking out for their own self-interest" and I think it's the similar position to Obama-era republicans who just wanted to stop anything the democrats did. It's hard to reconcile with my reformist beliefs, I really do believe compromise is necessary and I don't believe in forcing people to agree, but if both parties are just going to spite each other in order to get votes then I don't know what to do.
It's hard to reconcile because I agree with some points of horseshoe theory, that that far-left and far-right tend to share totalitarian or authoritarian beliefs, but there reasons are radically different.
The far-left see globalization as a threat it's because they see the over-exploitation of workers/resources and limitations on free travel and other liberties, their solution to this is to globally acquire the means of production and collectively work in the best interest of everyone or reduce globalization drastically in what would probably fit an anarcho-primitivist view (people just aren't capable of working on a global scale without exploiting, killing, controlling one another).
On the other hand the far-right see's globalization as a threat to their culture, traditions, and way of life as the influx of culture melding and immigrants brings new societal issues or (and forgive me if I'm wrong) they believe that it's a natural consequence of the world, limited resources means people will never truly be equal, unless you deprive everyone.
The problem I then have is the centrists. In the horseshoe theory the centrist would be responsible for keeping things moving, compromising between the sides, and would probably be the ideal position. Although, history shows us that this is not often the case. It seems centrists will typically support whichever side benefits them immediately or doesn't come into conflict with their beliefs. Fascists and Socialists states have been built on the centrists backs. To think everyone in Germany, Italy, and Spain were far-right is ridiculous, but it's not so ridiculous to think that the fascist policies were less menacing to the centrists' status quo. They aren't taking their private property, they don't want to strive for egalitarian policies, and they would have inspired pride in any nationalists heart. For the case of socialist countries like China, USSR, and Cuba, the majority of the population were not well-off or felt like their work and lands were being used to support foreign citizens so socialist policies (in theory) were more beneficial to the centrists in that case.
I appreciate anyone that took the time to read this, been pissy the last few days so anyone I may have put-off I apologize.
Edit: One last thought I had as I was typing this. Thank god the turnover on this site isn't like a reddit or 4chan. Since we don't have to worry about getting lost in the flood of comments, taking the time to put all your ideas into a post feels much more rewarding and increases the overall content.