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Is this just horribly wrong, or is that just me...

This guy is a total jackass. I can't stand being around guys like this, that treat women like this and think they're such hot shit because of how they manipute girls.

I had a friend who sounds much like this guy. He would be so proud of how easily he could sleep with girls and keep them all strung around his finger by playing emotional head games with them. The only girls that I knew that fell for his shit, would usually be girls with already low self-esteem. He'd build them up, then cut them down and completely string them along for an emotional rollercoaster ride of bullshit. I always felt SO bad that these girls kept going back to someone like him, because it was such a self-destructive thing to watch!

Fuck that guy.
 
that last line is the only wrong one...

Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was a guy who just wanted to get laid. And I do :-)

much better

you can have romances and friends, or lots of sex. its your choice, and we shouldn't judge you for it. just don't expect us to be anywhere near you. (And yes, some of us can spot you on sight)
 
* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.

that same is true of everyone, actually.

you boring, parochial, self-righteous, morally defunct cretin.

:)
 
Everything in that article is correct. It's common sense and well known rules in the seduction community. Treat them mean to keep them keen and more often than not they will come back wanting more! - its sexist- but it is also how women operate.
 
Arrrrrr what a fucking prick!!!

All women are emotional lieres.... Well you a cheating manipulative fuking cunt!!

KITTYINTHEDARK- I dont blame you for nearly smashing your computer, the guys a compleat prick and is exactly the type of guy that gives decent men a bad name. He is also just hanging around a load of selfish cock obsesed bitches. Ingnor what the fuck wit has writen out of his arse cos he is clearly wrong.

Arrr and another thing in the first part... men respect loyalty and honner.... THEN PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH fuck wit and stop cheating on all these other guys with ther women.

GRRRRRRRRRRR I'd didnt get far into the artical and I dont want to.

(mods sorry for my language but the artical is writn by a cunt)
 
trancegirle said:
^^^^ HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD beatlebot :)

i would be mad about the things his saying if i didnt feel so sorry for this guy. the way he views the world is just sad really.

There are definatly truths in what he is saying along with a lot of untruths though. The fact that he plays on womens weeknesses to sleep with them however, i find somewhat pathetic.

I could make a list of men's flaws & weaknesses but i dont really see the point in wasting my time on that because theres more to life than "getting laid".

Id like to point out also that PEOPLE cheat. Not "women" not "men" but PEOPLE.


Ye thats more like what I wanted to put but all I could see was red :X
 
No point in getting angry at someone like him. Mor elike we should feel sorry for him.

What chicks is HE hanging with? I am sorry but women get driven to cheating by the sort of behavior he is recommending. Neglect them emotionally then pull them back in? Yeah as soon as a guy has done that shit to me i have got rid of them. Bluntly too. Men that try to toy with me and think they know how to manipulate me end up sulking like babies when i am done with them.

Treat me nice i will treat you nice. Simple.

What he has neglected to mention is the power women have of sensing when things are not quite right as well. We have a VERY powerful gut instinct and it can be very hard to get things past us. I can sense a prick a mile away, and when i wanna find something out about someone i will.

I have had a few boyfriends in my time as i am heading onto 26 now. One my very first boyfriend i cheated on... why? Because he played games with me. He thought he had me under control... very much like the wanker who made the post... and what happened? I went and found someone else. Have i cheated again since then? No.

Would i cheat on my current boyfriend? Never.

Just because us women wont hang around and put up with male crap does not mean we are never to be trusted.

I know that if you don't give me honesty, respect and loyalty then i will look elsewhere.
 
this thread reminds me of something I read in an article a few years back.

In a survey given to women that were in relationships (either married or serious long term relationships), the question was asked: If you had the chance for a once-in-a-lifetime sexual or romantic encounter with no chance of your significant other ever finding out, would you do it?

70% said yes

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Get a Grip Guy!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, this guy defines his success upon getting laid - hell, any man or woman can do this.............. It's a no brainer!!!!!

His 'manifesto' is one of strategic game playing: states he's in his early 30's. Well some points I can somewhat agree with in terms of strategy, but very few 8(

An utter contradiction in his statement:

Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their @#%$. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy.

Please.................... FFS............. 8( 8(

He has manipulated his view that women are sexually liberated, but find desperation in their 30's - Utterly incorrect IMO. Bulshit. Sexual and social liberation has meant that women are free to choose their own path, sexually and financially. Speaking as a women (30, turning 31 soon) I have absolutely NO SENSE OF DESPERATION in seetling for a 'wimpy beta' to settle down with to 'PAY'. I have total control over my own destiny, and this DOES NOT include any sense of desperation he mentions. I love my career, friends and total financial independence.

X Isis
 
It's funny how he regards all that as a success and then moves on to gives us advice on how to be like him, acting like sex is the only thing in this world that's important...he must have some psychological issues from his past that he hasn't dealt with that's made him act this way I think. So he's slept with over 200 women? I wonder how many of those were in a sane state of mind when they made that decision to sleep with him?
 
^^ Agreed +

Sane / Chemically altered states of mind have a lot to do with the kind of decisions upon who you are willing to sleep with!

Isis
 
for the record ^ being drunk is not an excuse to cheat, i dont give a fuck what extenuating circumstances there are (well, ok we could all think of extreme examples).

this guy sounds like allot of my brothers, huge raging assholes with no respect for woman. they tend to pull a certain kind of girl every time. so yea, you 80% success rate might be true, hell, ive seen guys pullin the same numbers, but they are with the same shallow bitchy insecure girls. 200? yea ok, but your basically just fucking the same chick over again, just different hair style and better shoes.

about women cheating; ill give you the benefit of the doubt. i guess im just stupid, but i like to see the good in people, its up to you whether or not it stays that way. im not beta; not all confident men are dicks. i would actually say that many of the cockey over confident assholes i hang out with are really just insecure and are over compensating.
 
yea ok, but your basically just fucking the same chick over again, just different hair style and better shoes.


Quoted for truth. Couldn't have said it better myself, i think the reason why he looks for just sex instead of personality, is because he knows he lacks having a good personality and makes up for it in this way. He couldn't handle a proper relationship.
 
subopm420 said:
for the record ^ being drunk is not an excuse to cheat, i dont give a fuck what extenuating circumstances there are (well, ok we could all think of extreme examples).

Agreed indeed, however, the reason why this guy is able to get laid 200+ times may indeed have a lot to do with the potentially chemical impairment he and or the women he has hooked up with ;) .

Isis
 
^ ahh, ok now i see what you were saying. resonates with truth :D

i think the reason why he looks for just sex instead of personality, is because he knows he lacks having a good personality and makes up for it in this way. He couldn't handle a proper relationship.
birds of a feather... (god im a corny bastard! =D)

if thats what your going for though then this guy gives some hella good advice.
 
trancegirle said:
^^^^ HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD beatlebot :)

i would be mad about the things his saying if i didnt feel so sorry for this guy. the way he views the world is just sad really.

There are definatly truths in what he is saying along with a lot of untruths though. The fact that he plays on womens weeknesses to sleep with them however, i find somewhat pathetic.

I could make a list of men's flaws & weaknesses but i dont really see the point in wasting my time on that because theres more to life than "getting laid".

Id like to point out also that PEOPLE cheat. Not "women" not "men" but PEOPLE.

Honestly you find him pathetic for playing on peoples weaknesses for his own purposes but what you dont realize is you do the same shit every day

maybe not for the same reason but you do it

trust me
 
^ everyone plays to their own strengths, sometimes at the detriment of others. unavoidable sometimes. but to do so in such an overtly despicable manner, and on purpose no less, is fucked.
 
subopm420 said:
^ everyone plays to their own strengths, sometimes at the detriment of others. unavoidable sometimes. but to do so in such an overtly despicable manner, and on purpose no less, is fucked.

honestly he isnt doing any worse than most people he is just honest about it
 
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