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Is this inevitable?

I've a locksmith coming on Thursday to change the locks, and I've already packed his clothes/hats/shoes (I found 3 more empty bottles of NyQuil hidden in his dresser) and put the boxes on the front porch. I texted him about everything & all he could say was "are you fuckin serious? Can't we talk about it? Where am I supposed to go, you're making me homeless."

For the first time in years, I don't care at all about how he feels.
 
Jnowhere said:
YES I DO. you are being cheated on and you pay his bills. You are being used.
1. Hook, line and sinker is an American expression meaning you fell for it all, the con job.
2. I know what your talking about. You, support a man who is cheating, lying, living and partying with your money.
3. what did I miss?
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I apologize for being overly sensitive, NOTHING you said was wrong, I was just in my feels.

I actually appreciate you being brutally honest, it's a nice change to what I've heard from my friends/coworkers.
 
Hoovering Schneef said:
I apologize for being overly sensitive, NOTHING you said was wrong, I was just in my feels.

I actually appreciate you being brutally honest, it's a nice change to what I've heard from my friends/coworkers.
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Real friends tell you the truth. The problem is in our culture. People being too afraid to be honest for fear of offending people. That has weakened people, autistic or not.

It has also empowered, lazy, users who prey on whomever they can. Parasites.
Sob story after sob story; to use people for material gain. It is sickening.

Please, don't be a victim.
Please, Don't hold this against all men.
J
 
thatmf said:
How are you doing now that he's gone?
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At first it was weird coming home and having silence in the house. No chat about work, politics, food events in the city, etc.

Now, I have a routine. Fed the pets, start a pot of coffee, shower, get half-dressed, press my chef whites, make breakfast, finish getting dressed, go to work, come home, shower and repeat. It's honestly boring AF, and I'm over it already lol but I know it's necessary.

Mentally, I've been wondering if I'm going to grow old by myself, and spiraling into intrusive thoughts about dying alone. I do have a friend from work (who I think has other thoughts than being friends), that's been really cool about coming over and spending time with me when we're off work. He's super respectful, and even though he's only stayed over like 4 times, he's never asked to sleep with me, he's always slept on the couch downstairs.

I'm also very vigilant about entering into any kind of relationship. So idk, I'm just taking the cards I'm dealt and doing the most with them.
 
Jnowhere said:
Real friends tell you the truth. The problem is in our culture. People being too afraid to be honest for fear of offending people. That has weakened people, autistic or not.

It has also empowered, lazy, users who prey on whomever they can. Parasites.
Sob story after sob story; to use people for material gain. It is sickening.

Please, don't be a victim.
Please, Don't hold this against all men.
J
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I would never hold the actions of 1 person against all others.
 
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