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Is it normal or am I a lesbian ?

smackydowners said:
jesus christ, i know this is a drugs forum, but fuckinnnn 'ellll.

OP - i dont think banging a tab of acid is really the answer here. i think experimenting with women is, and finding out if it's for you or not. have fun experimenting!
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I think it's a good idea for her to experiment. However, I think it would depend on what the OP actually wants to accomplish. She already knows she likes girls. But I think if someone wants to understand certain things about themselves, I think thinking inward is a good option.. Now, I guess I'm guilty for implying that you need acid to do that.
However... I've never heard of someone who's romantically attracted to one sex, but sexually attracted to the other. For something like that, I recommend looking inward for such an explanation.
 
Okay, enough with the LSD talk. Yes it opens your mind. It may or may not be good for the OP. We can't tell.

You could be bi. Why not have an experience with a female? Ensure it is someone who is not looking for a relationship if that's all you want. Lots of people out there just looking for one night stands or hookups or whatever. Don't stress out too much about labels though.

Honestly I'm attracted to guys but also somewhat females. Some females are just REALLY attractive. I consider myself both straight and "bi-curious", depending on the situation. My partner (male) is similar. Well he's actually had experiences with male, whereas I have not had experiences with females. It's kinda fun, we can both talk about who is and isn't attractive, regardless of gender. :)
 
AmbarrZ said:
I think I'm only sexually attracted to girls maybe. I like guys and I've been in love with a guy but no matter what, when it comes to sex , no matter how much I like dude , I'll still have this whole other fantasy shit playing in my head. If I'm
Not then I'm not turned on.
Which is why I'm so confused .
If I like men, why don't they physically turn me on?
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wow obvious lesbian


sorry but i can get turned on by straight porn and enjoy the vagina but only cos there is a dick there too. on its own it does little for me. (am gay)

go with a girl and see how you feel?
 
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transexual and Heterosexual are all normal.
 
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Seriously thank you all.

I get what they mean with the lsd talk .. Although I've never tried
That type of drugs, I've heard stories about how you understand certian things all of a sudden.. Might work ..

But no, I haven't ever been with a girl. I guess I'll know the answer as soon as that happens.

I really just wanted to see if every girl thinks this way , or not.

I don't think I even know a lesbian , and that is interesting because like someone said, I probbly just never saw it that way.

Asking this question was super fearful and hard for me . So I appreciate your feedback
More than you know
 
Am would you be ok with doing sexual things with a girl in front of your boyfriend? i've been doing things with a girl in front of a man, it works for him so your bf might agree to it too! just hire a stripper and you can be part of the act for sure :) maybe say to your bf "do you like strippers, i find them exciting, can we hire one?"
 
I am sexually attracted to both. I have neve had romantic feelings for men, only for woman. I am socially retarded, have abandonment issues, mommy issues and just horrible experiences with woman in my developmental years pkus trauma issues and neurotic anxiety. I usually love woman from afar and have inferiority issues thinking that all I could ever do is let people down, or hurt them. It's illogical and irrational and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It takes me hours to get off with Men or Woman and the only person I have been able to have normal sex with where I was able to enjoy it and get off was with someone I learned to trust, it took a long time and letting my guard down but it happened. Last person I had sex with was a guy. I tried a bunch of weird shit trying to find what exactly I needed for sexual fulfillment and none of it worked.

It's emotional attachment and trust that I need for sexual gratification, it doesn't matter what is between a persons legs. All that matters is that I can feel like I can trust them. Their intentions, that they aren't thinking negatively about me and I have to be feeling secure about myself at the same time to facilitate that trust and pacify the shame and self image issues.
 
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