i figured i suggested the theme, so i ought to write about it 
i've been on BL for almost 7 years, and i am amazed at how much i have changed and my interactions with this site have changed. i stumbled upon the site looking for information about rolling, i think i wanted to know if it was going affect my birth control. then i began lurking and do not think i really began posting till a year or two after i joined. shortly after that i went to my first meetup and slowly began making friends thru the site.
i used to post whatever came to my mind because of the anonymity. then i went thru a phase when i was extremely cautious about what i posted because of who might read it. now i am in an in between phase, where i know friends (including my fiancée and roommate) may read things, but i do not care.
i use this blog mostly as a place to rant and complain and get out frustrations so i do not bore my friends with the same issues over and over again. and i may post somewhat cryptic things that apply to my mood of the day. or just amusing tidbits that i want to keep a record of.
i've been on BL for almost 7 years, and i am amazed at how much i have changed and my interactions with this site have changed. i stumbled upon the site looking for information about rolling, i think i wanted to know if it was going affect my birth control. then i began lurking and do not think i really began posting till a year or two after i joined. shortly after that i went to my first meetup and slowly began making friends thru the site.
i used to post whatever came to my mind because of the anonymity. then i went thru a phase when i was extremely cautious about what i posted because of who might read it. now i am in an in between phase, where i know friends (including my fiancée and roommate) may read things, but i do not care.
i use this blog mostly as a place to rant and complain and get out frustrations so i do not bore my friends with the same issues over and over again. and i may post somewhat cryptic things that apply to my mood of the day. or just amusing tidbits that i want to keep a record of.