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onepumpchump

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A girl I have started seeing recently has told me she would like to take MDMA with me. My issue with this is that her entire experience with drugs is the occasional drink ( really doesnt like it) and a couple of space cakes in Amsterdam.
This all came about because I told her about my drug use, considering it's a part of my life that can be a deal breaker for some people I just put it out there early on, 'it's part of who I am, take it or leave it'

What I'm wondering is where should we do this? I usually use MDMA in a club/bar setting, I weigh 200 pounds but usually only take about 125mg, so as you can see I generally don't roll face of anything, I mainly use it for the social side of the drug ( obviously I feel amazing whilst doing it) So I'm wondering if I should take her to a bar/club, or should we do it at home? I've never done MDMA at home, and can't see the experience being that good, although on the other hand, if I'm rolling with someone I care about it could be fun.

The other question I had was dosage, I usually give people 100mg for their first time, unless they are very small, and most seem to love it. Should initial doses be lower? My first time was 150mg and I was completely wrecked, I had a great time although it was way too much for a first time.
 
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the general guidelines are 1-2mg/kg of body weight. though the dose should rather be on the lower end of the spectrum if it's the first time or of the person is female. women are normally more sensitive to the effects of mdma.
 
I'll definitely be dosing on the lower side of things. I'm really not sure about dosing at home though, it will be interesting, home is usually for trips, clubs are for MDMA :P
 
Make sure she really wants to try it herself, not because she's into you and doesn't want to say no or something. If she's as inexperienced with drugs as you say, it's a pretty big step to go from that to rolling for the first time. Not saying don't do it, just saying that you never know what path you set someone on when it comes to trying 'hard drugs' for the first time, it really needs to be her own decision, not influenced by how she feels about you

Apart from that Black already gave you good info
 
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Thanks guys. I'm concerned about her wanting to try it for the wrong reasons as well Blue.

I've had a bit of a chat in regards to that over text, but I have already said that I want to talk about it properly before we do it.
I've tested this batch, and asked all the relevant medical questions, medications, bi polar etc.

I get nervous giving people drugs, even experienced people, I kind of feel responsible for their high, I'm like one of those annoying hosts, hovering around asking if everything is OK, or if you need any more food/drink :P
 
I would definetly do it at home. It's a lot more richer than in a club, IMO. I take medium-large dose trips at home but low dose trips for clubbing. For MDMA my standard dose is 100mg and I always take it at home.

I do it once a year (I take 100mg MDMA, and I give my girl +/- 110mg MDAI). Blankets, candles, soft music, some snacks, water and a bed. That's all you need.
We start the trip by showering together and washing eachother. Use some eacalyptus scrubs if you're into it ;). Feels very meaningful.
We watched some documentaries and she thinks she isn't too into the "rollercoaster feel" of the MDMA comeup. I have decided however *if* she wants to try it, I'll give her 75mg.

You seem like a responsible guy. Better to have an underwhelming experience than an offputting one.
 
onepumpchump said:
Thanks guys. I'm concerned about her wanting to try it for the wrong reasons as well Blue.

I've had a bit of a chat in regards to that over text, but I have already said that I want to talk about it properly before we do it.
I've tested this batch, and asked all the relevant medical questions, medications, bi polar etc.

I get nervous giving people drugs, even experienced people, I kind of feel responsible for their high, I'm like one of those annoying hosts, hovering around asking if everything is OK, or if you need any more food/drink :P
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That's a very good attitude I think. I've always avoided being the first person someone tries a new drug with, unless their mind was already made up and the decision is made independently and informed. As I said you never know what path you might set someone on, I don't want to be 'responsible' for someone fucking up their lives with drugs. MDMA is pretty harmless when used properly, but it does move someone from having only smoked some weed into having used harder drugs, that always brings with it a change in mindset and that could cause problems with other drugs later on if that person turns out to have bad self-control

By the way, what you say about being an annoying host, that attitude is in my opinion perfect for an MDMA roll, not annoying in the slightest. Concern for your fellow rollers is inherent to the MDMA experience and it can be a beautiful thing
 
I recommend doing it at home, especially if she's not used to clubbing or being around people on MDMA or psychedelics. Also, pure MDMA at home is lovely especially if your with a girlfriend/boyfriend. :) Would dose low, but not too low. Dosing too low is unpleasant. I would give her 100, that is never too much, and enough to get everyone rolling for their first time. You don't wont her to get stuck in that uncomfortable come-up, that happens if you dose to low.
 
I tried with many unexperienced girls in clubs&home.
I definitely recommend her to try at home. Just don't dose more than 100mg, for a first timer it's more than enough. Don't give her a redose. Or if she wants more after give her .50mg or 75mg more not more.
Sex should be good tho, have fun.

Just relax, don't be the unpatient guy asking how she is or she's ok. Make her explore it, if she feels bad you can relax her, make her massage and calm her down. It's more fun like that :)
 
Thanks for all the great advice :)

I had a chat to her and why she wants to do them, and it's mainly curiosity. She said she wanted to try it earlier, when her friends used to take pills, but never felt safe considering she didnt know where they came from, and the fact they were out clubbing.
She said she feels safe trying it with me since I explained my HR measures. We're going to do it after my exams

Let the good times Roll :)
 
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