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Introducing and then doing coke with my girlfriend?

But wait shes a big girl and can decide what she wants to do.

And as a girl thats around alot of drugs i know when to say NO I DONT WANT!She is the one that needs to decided what she wants to do.
if she wants to do it shes gonna do it with or with out you
but..

if i wanted to try something i would want to do it with my boyfriend i think it would be the smart thing to do if SHE wants to try something. doing coke with a bunch of girlfriends at the club drunk is not very safe, in case of any situation you have your boyfriend who can take care of you guide you, protect you , calm you some one whos an EXPERIENCED drug user .


once, when very inexperienced i took tooo much E and if it wasnt for my boyfriend i donno what woulda happened
 
i understand the first drug experience by one half of a couple can be an amazing thing togeather, but thats the problem, it makes it that much more addictive. i have a girl clamouring (thats a word right?) for more E after the night a certain hot tub photo was taken. after what happened to my now daily sniffing ex-gf im being very careful, motivated by fear, to keep an eye on her. i feel responsible now...wish id distanced myself from her now ><

sure her bf should keep her safe especially during a time like this.
so should her girlfriends

you dont want the responsibility
 
UPDATE:

After some consideration I decided not to go ahead with this. However, if she does decide to do coke I told her to tell me so I can pick up a bag as well and do it with her. Btw, she only goes clubbing when I'm around (her choice, not mine).
 
I don't personaly believe in introducing someone to drugs,, but saying that,,she's not a drug virgvin is she,,difficult one,,
Going back 10+ years when I was married, my ex had mentioned an interest in trying coke,,she had previously dabled with E's+ wizz,, 1 year on her b-day we were in Amsterdam,( I have always found that for me,taking drugs out of context,out of the norm,,in a different country for exp,,on holiday,,well,it;s something that can be left behind when return to normal,,this is just my experience),it was omething we had planed to do before we left,,she was not the type of person to get addicted,,you know,,the way others can be,,like me! Anyway,,we got acouple G's,,woke up on her birthday and put some porn on+ orderd champaighne,,we had a great time,in all honesty I liked her a lot more when she was high,,I suppose thats why we aint married anymorer! Our different attitude to drugs became very clear after the last line had gone,,,we had money,,all I wanted to do was get more coke,,but she was having none of it,,she held the money,,it caused a big argument,,when we got home she admitted that she did want to do more,,but partly cus she wanted to show she was stong+partly due to fact that I did want more,,lol,,,i guess this says more about my marrige than coke! Maybe it would be a better idea if you did it together once she has already tried it ? I get the thing about you wanting her first time with you,,but that way wasn't you who introduced her+will avoid getting coments like some of the ones you've gotten,,stay safe
 
I would think her response of "it's up to you" would be a pretty clear indicator that you shouldn't. If you suspect she's going to do it with her friends at some point anyway, great, but she doesn't seem to be jumping at the idea.
 
man its a hard situation, straight up me and my girl were addicted to oxy, we both are on sub program now..
she tried blow for the first time while getting clean and she;s basically a coke head, ever since she tried it shes been doing it basically every single day, as often as she can
so i duno if you know your girl and know she ain't someone who would get outta hand easily then yea give it to her, if you think there's a decent probability that she would get addicted then i'd say fuck it don't do it
 
Bringing addictive drugs into a relationship is a horrible idea, ime.
My ex got me into that shit and we just ended up going on a downward spiral. Coke can make people act very fucking weird, whether they're high or not. When sober, we'd be fiending and would fight with one another or do stupid things we normally wouldn't, just to get ahold of some blow. And eventually I ended up caring more about the drug than him at times. I got away from it for a while, but by the time I was sober he had gotten heavy into amphetamines and turned into a paranoid schitzo. That was the end of all that shit.

You'll just end up getting her addicted to a horrible drug, and then you two will support eachother's habit. Trust me, the first dozen times I did it, I didn't think it was addictive either. I'm just over a month sober now. And I crave it hard every single fucking day.
 
Coke & Love don't mix

D n A said:
Bringing addictive drugs into a relationship is a horrible idea
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Yup!
I've seen many couples, fighting, cheating, and breaking up -eventually-, after using coke for some time..

For a relationship, coke is a sure ticket to hell...8(

Gd Luck!

~H~
 
Didn't read the thread but based on the title I think this is a horrible idea.
 
i mean in all honesty how bad can it b? u said she has done E 3times for the yr "im a regular E user" so i don't think doing a lil coke once in a blue is gonna b a big deal for her but i will say becaureful cuz i know it's very addictive.l
 
I have tried coke one time, and that was enough. Not everyone reacts positively to it. I had hallucinations and paranoia the entire time I was up. I do not do well with stimulants in any real sort of quantity. One cup of coffee after 5pm will keep me up all night.

I don't recommend giving anyone something or encouraging them until they know they can handle the buzz, lest you end up like this girl I met in 2000 named Chloe who took one hit of acid and lost her marbles permanently... Although I don't think she had her head screwed on very well in the first place, and her idiot BF certainly didn't. She had a nice rack, shame it was attached to such a nutcase...
 
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