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im the nice guy, how do i become the aggressive/bad guy

zaineaol.nu said:
^ so you can mould them into the perfect husband.
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ok wise one, tell me what IDIOT would bother dating someone they couldn't see a future with? Isn't that the point of relationships... to see if you're compatible to share a future together, and if you are, to eventually marry?

If that's not the purpose, then what is?

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lol, obviously if you find it essential that you be treated with love and respect, you go for a nice guy...

If adventure and unpredictability are more thrilling to you, you go for an asshole...

zaineaol.nu said:
nice guys lack everything women really want.
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If you're equating 'kindness' to 'lack of confidence', then perhaps. However what women really want is a nice guy, who has the confidence to tell his mates that he's in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. Not out of desperation and neediness, but out of sincere devotion!

But that guy is very hard to find...
Very hard...

A gentleman is what we ALL want. Not a pussy, not an asshole... but a gentleman! There is, unfortunately, no-where near enough to go around, hence why you see so many women settle for one of the two extremes! [pussy (nice guy) vs. asshole.]

zaineaol.nu said:
Get a grip - reality is reality.. what you say and do are two different things women.
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Your idea of reality is very out of whack. You should be starting to realize this since almost every post you make gets criticized!
 
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^^ LOL... well done!

Big dif, you're female, so no matter what you're going to think the COMPLETE opposite. Truth is you don't even know what you what - it's when that charisma hits you smack bang in the face, you're swept from your feet. The nice guy|arsehole bridge is a fine one my friend. And women NEVER in the end, unless they are complete manipulating whores, wind up with what they want - then they try to mould the guy (nice shyguy) into a puppet of their will - use, abuse, and destroy what personality he had until he is completely their pawn and personal ATM.

but either way, if a guy emotionally/mentally abuses a girl in a simmilar fashion, what is he labelled as then? It's expected of women to be able to do this - minute one bloke gets a hand up, he's kicked to the ground and treated as a dog.

sorry bub, it's quantity over quality, if you're not a headfuck - which i doubt considering a personal basis - you're a fine minority.

meh, if you question me, at least i raise an argument worthy of question. I'm sure 101 men on here agree with me, and 1001 women disagree.
 
My god you're an embaressment to yourself! 8(

If only you knew...

Yes, ok, all men are perfect just the way they are, and all women are evil bitches who have an alterior motive behind everything! When we get into a relationship with a man, we're thinking 'damn this piece of shit isn't who I want...' but we take him anyway on the chance we can turn the sorry piece of shit into our little bitch. That will keep us satisfied for the rest of our lives... because we are women, we are evil, hear us ROAR!!!
 
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1.) Buy a leather jacket and expensive shades, and wear them all the time, even indoors.

2.) Snap your fingers at women and whistle.

3.) Always have an insult on tap for a flirt.

4.) Never call them, and answer their phone calls half the time.

5.) If you end up talking for too long, say "Bitch, it's time for you to get down and PUT OUT!"

6.) If you didn't already know, I'm totally kidding.

:D
 
Belisarius said:
1.) Buy a leather jacket and expensive shades, and wear them all the time, even indoors.

:D
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haha i like that one.

and just to clarify b/c it seems ive done a bad job of articulating what i mean. just because im the nice guy doenst mean im weak, just the opposite, ive got the confidence and ability to use what i got, and im not a shy guy either, im usually the guy that leads the pack when i go out with my friends or what not. i just want to try it out this way once. and seeing as my parents raised me to be an old school gentleman, i never knew any other way. so thats why i was asking. its not because im pathetic and desperately trying to get laid. im trying a new thing with a new type of girl that i never would have considered dating before, because i want to learn more about myself and try things ive never done before.

but i also understand what some of the above people were saying, about using what you got and that there arent enough nice guys and what not. and i agree that there arent enough gentlemen around
 
^ Hunny, whilst I admire personal growth, becoming an asshole would only put you into a state of decline... [especially if you're already a gentleman.]

I know that everyone needs to make their own mistakes in life, and I do believe these mistakes can turn into positives, however they don't turn into positives until you look back and realize how much you've grown.

See, zaineol, for example, will [hopefully] look back at his current attitude and realize that he was childish... he will [hopefully] look at himself in the years to come and realize that since his attitude changed, he has become a real man [yes, there's even some hope for zaineol.]

But you, what have you got to gain from the experience? You've already got the desirable attitude, and a girl who you like, who's mutually interested in you...

All you can really gain is the breaking of some poor girls heart, and for what? Because you thought it might be fun, even though you knew better?

If you've already got the personality skills to get women fairly, I can't see one reason as to why you'd want to convert to being a prick? Most nice guys [ie. pansies] take this approach out of despair... you're not in a state of despair!
 
Lets be realistic, most nice guys wont have friends with benefits despite what some of you say. Women go to the nice guys when they are in trouble, but beyond that, they never contact them. Maybe if the nice guy strikes at a vulnerable moment, he may get a pity fuck, but besides that, nice guys dont have friends with benefits very often. Why? Because like I said earlier, women ONLY go to the nice guy to talk about their troubles and drama. Whenever they are feeling fine and want to have fun, they're not looking for someone to sit down and talk, they're looking for someone adventurous and fun.

Contrary to popular belief, you dont have to be an asshole either to score with chicks. Women come to nice guys with their troubles because nice guys portray themselves as the person to come to with your burdens. So in other words, whenever women come to you with their drama, instead of sitting down at starbucks or lounging around, go do something. Do something other than the standard "let's sit down and we'll talk" but at the same time, pick an activity that allows conversations and be creative. Give them an impression that you're not put on this earth to be their personal psychatrist and that you're friend/date/friends with benefits material. And always, always, always be polite. There are minor details that individually seems insignificant, but they all subconciously compound to give you a better reputation. Things like opening the door for her, or getting her coat. Eventually, you'll be more than just the "go to" guy for trouble, but never neglect your duty as the nice guy either. It's not hard for women to find someone to talk about their troubles with, and it's not hard for them to find the adventurous asshole -- it's the guy in between thats hard to find.

Edit: I just read the 2 posts above. It actually doesn't seem like you're doing anything wrong. When you say you're trying something new, what do you mean? Do you mean you're purposely going to be an asshole to her? From the description of yourself above, it doesn't seem like you have any trouble getting her, or any female. And all you wanted was a friends with benefit situation correct? So just fuck her, and tell her no strings attached. I don't see any other way to make her a friend with benefits.
 
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Just kiss her. It's not like there's some magical plan that will help get you with a girl. Actions speak louder than words-ALWAYS. Just don't talk as much and push it physically.
 
Peruvian Cocaine said:
Lets be realistic, most nice guys wont have friends with benefits despite what some of you say. Women go to the nice guys when they are in trouble, but beyond that, they never contact them. Maybe if the nice guy strikes at a vulnerable moment, he may get a pity fuck, but besides that, nice guys dont have friends with benefits very often. Why? Because like I said earlier, women ONLY go to the nice guy to talk about their troubles and drama. Whenever they are feeling fine and want to have fun, they're not looking for someone to sit down and talk, they're looking for someone adventurous and fun.

Contrary to popular belief, you dont have to be an asshole either to score with chicks. Women come to nice guys with their troubles because nice guys portray themselves as the person to come to with your burdens. So in other words, whenever women come to you with their drama, instead of sitting down at starbucks or lounging around, go do something. Do something other than the standard "let's sit down and we'll talk" but at the same time, pick an activity that allows conversations and be creative. Give them an impression that you're not put on this earth to be their personal psychatrist and that you're friend/date/friends with benefits material. And always, always, always be polite. There are minor details that individually seems insignificant, but they all subconciously compound to give you a better reputation. Things like opening the door for her, or getting her coat. Eventually, you'll be more than just the "go to" guy for trouble, but never neglect your duty as the nice guy either. It's not hard for women to find someone to talk about their troubles with, and it's not hard for them to find the adventurous asshole -- it's the guy in between thats hard to find.

Edit: I just read the 2 posts above. It actually doesn't seem like you're doing anything wrong. When you say you're trying something new, what do you mean? Do you mean you're purposely going to be an asshole to her? From the description of yourself above, it doesn't seem like you have any trouble getting her, or any female. And all you wanted was a friends with benefit situation correct? So just fuck her, and tell her no strings attached. I don't see any other way to make her a friend with benefits.
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If such a human truly exists, this world would not be in the decay it is today.

Sadly, people of such 'purity' are few and far between.

Doppelganger: i don't think all men are perfect, far from it... i just think women know how to work mens emotions to get what they want - even without thinking it they do it.
 
how do i become the aggressive/bad guy
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1. Get a big loud bike, drive triple the speed limit especially in school zones

2. Wear half buttoned shirts with big gold chains around your neck

3. Smoke a lot , make sure you puff right into their face

4. Never return phonecalls

5. Insist on calling all girls "hoes" and "bitches"

6. Always carry a wad of cash but insist on them giving you money

7. Congratulations, you've just become an asshole

=D
 
zaineaol.nu said:
^ so you can mould them into the perfect husband.

I live with women, witness their actions... everything women TELL people is bullshit, they all know whats goin on behind the scenes...

i've lost a best friend to a PSYCHOBITCH using fat twat mole. I have a housemate who frequently ruins mens lives, including that of her father... and another housemate who plays on the other male housemates emotions in order to manipulate him into doing what she wants... and he's a nice guy - only realising now - that nice guys finish last.

nice guys lack everything women really want.

One of my best mates, he's a nice guy... funnily enough - hes 20 and a virgin. Put it in perspective... My CRAZY housemate wants to fuck him, and inevitably even if she thinks she wont, will ruin his poor head. He's decided to keep away..

Get a grip - reality is reality.. what you say and do are two different things women.
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we have a psycopath in the making here! :D

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS THE PERFECT HUSBAND YOU IGNORANT FUCKING TWAT

go fuck yourself or get the fuck back to rubbishing the aus social singles thread with your shite so preacha can wipe the virtual floor with ya.

beatlebot I am drunk please edit me, but this stupid cuntox chode really needs a fucking serious choking!
 
I will edit it if it gets reported.

But Z, you really do talk alot of crap sometimes. Is there even one woman in the world that you like? Respect? Don't hate?

I'm going to have a drink too.
 
^ yes!!!

I love all women.

I even have sex with them, but thats bnot love, its just fucking!!

You know I love my own kind.

We fiucking rule, we aint bitches, we just demand REAL MEN who are not fucking twatty idiots, ewwho can actually BE REAL MEN!!!!!


Be a fucking real men lads, we will love you for it..

We do NOT WANT BOYS damn you.

Be a fucking MAN for christ sake!:D
 
Beatlebot said:
But Z, you really do talk alot of crap sometimes. Is there even one woman in the world that you like? Respect? Don't hate?
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I like heaps, my comments are generalisations on the basis of relationships with women. I have many female friends and the like - but from what i can see, girls just seem to fuck up your head in every way shape and form.

In this day and age relationships seem to be far more than just painful, i see nearly every 40+ guy i know - he's now single, heart broken and wondering what the fuck he did for 20+ years whilst he was abused. I can't go into enough detail, but these are things i witness from a 3rd person perspective that make me form my ideas.

I don't hate women, just hate what happens when guys get involved with them.

Or maybe it's just because all the women i know are druggos with issues as a result.

Who knows - don't take what i say for gospel - it's my opinion, listen if you dare.
 
If a 40 year old guy is confiding his problems in you and people of your maturity level... well thank fuck his Mrs. finally left him.

She probably wasted 20 years of her life telling him to "grow up".

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Doppelganger said:
If a 40 year old guy is confiding his problems in you and people of your maturity level... well thank fuck his Mrs. finally left him.

She probably wasted 20 years of her life telling him to "grow up".

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Dude, you should shut your mouth.

This dude recovered from a serious stroke and lost about 15 years of his memory u insensitive twat. I don't think age matters at all in regards to friendship. If you think so than you're seriously limiting the world you can see.
 
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