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If you could see(hear) EVERYTHING that has ever been said about you....

YES!

I would absolutely positively love to hear it. Because if there's one thing that every single person alive is missing in themselves, its the knowledge of the opinions of others about themselves. A human is never complete, and finished growing until it has accumulated all the knowledge in existance. This is just one form of knowledge that would contribute to the completion of a human. Even if it was just a person who had a first impression on me, if I got their opinion on me, I could improve how I make first impressions on people, and so on. So how could I turn it down? This would be an incredible chance to learn something that I could otherwise never really know without making guess-timations. Would I turn down the chance to hear music in my life? Hell no. Would I turn down scientific knowledge? Hell no. Would I turn down the knowledge of the opinions of others? HELL NO!
 
No way would I want to. Everyone you know would have said some fucking evil shit about you from time to time and I don't think you would be able to stay friends with people the same way.
 
At first I was thinking, ofcourse I would listen! But now I'm not so sure. Do you really think it would be beneficial? It would be interesting... but I think even if a billion good things were said about me, and one bad... I would get really down about that bad thing. Also lots of the things you'd hear wouldn't be relevant at all to where you are today, so what if bad things were said years and years ago, and they start to bring you down and make you feel crap.. but really they just don't matter anymore. I spose you'd just have to realize that. It could help in many ways but I'm the sort of person that could dig myself into a hole over it and get depressed...

Who knows what I'd do if I was actually faced with the choice. Interesting idea though :)
 
^^^^^^
most cutest and incisive answer of the day.
plus if this power did exist it would have such a controlling factor ,for good or bad an all participents-you get the feeling nothing would be achieved and personalities would have no individuality except for those that dont give two hoots-ah the strong,ignorant survive.
 
Hmmm mixed feeling on this one.
Apart of me would be curious and if i got over the anger/ resentment i would feel about some of the comments and used it in a constructive way then watching/listening to everything would be worth while.

But then ignorance can be bliss- I'm content with who i am and i don't want other peoples veiws to shape me or make me think less of them.
I think that i would find it hard to trust people as I know have proof that people are talking but then again you could find out who your true freinds are.

Hmmm really good question and i answered it sooooo poorly. :(
 
I would say YES!!!

The biggest problem I would have with it is the fact that I wouldn't be able to look at the person who said anything negative about me in the same way... but I'm used to being let down by people I wouldn't expect it from, anyway... and after all, a little criticism is always in order(constructive or not). I'm always trying to improve myself-trying to keep an open mind toward everything and, especially, trying not to let things get to me as much... that would be a good exercise in both...:\
 
i would really like to hear what people have to say about me. there is nothing that i hate more than wasting my time with a bunch of backstabbing friends. i would rather have 5 true friends in my life than 50 who talked about me when i wasn't around.

recently i heard several of my room-mates talking smack about me because i am honest about how i feel when it comes to house issues. i told my housemates that i wasn't going to clean up their messes, their dishes, and i wasn't going to let them eat my food. i guess that they viewed me as "uncooperative" at a house meeting-so they decided to have a little meeting of their own...which i just happened to hear as i was coming downstairs. i was pissed at first, but i almost felt better after a little while. i came one step closer to knowing who my real friends are-and that is GREAT! :)
 
Maybe,but because the amount of data would be so massive, I believe I would perhaps need some hyperspeed explanation device.
Like some up above said.I'll do it in a second. It would not matter if negative things were said, because I know that God and Mother Earth and lots of creatures love me so much heeeeps so,so much and so I would not be afraid therefore from it, twould put things more into perspective.I know I am Loved Very Much and so are you.

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Sir Jac said:
it bothers me all the time, so I'd definitely do it... no doubt some of it would be hard to listen too, but for the most part I already know the worst that has been said about me... I'd just like to know if people see me the way I see myself... always been a driving question for me... probably why I first started doing alot of soul searching... so to have an answer to that question would be totally worth it...:D
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Yea i agree......Id have a pretty good idea of what diff people would say.....the neg at least.......Its would be cool to hear the good stuff.....So i definantly would..

I think that it would be, above all, interesting......to hear certain people's true thoughts about you....Its like being able to see pass the fake, polite way people act in front of others.....

It is def something that i have thought about many times b4.
 
yes...i dont care whos business it is or isnt, its human nature to feel curious and we're all lil gossip-birds deep inside
so yeah definately
 
tha_krazy_pawtie_kid said:
i would really like to hear what people have to say about me. there is nothing that i hate more than wasting my time with a bunch of backstabbing friends. i would rather have 5 true friends in my life than 50 who talked about me when i wasn't around.

recently i heard several of my room-mates talking smack about me because i am honest about how i feel when it comes to house issues. i told my housemates that i wasn't going to clean up their messes, their dishes, and i wasn't going to let them eat my food. i guess that they viewed me as "uncooperative" at a house meeting-so they decided to have a little meeting of their own...which i just happened to hear as i was coming downstairs. i was pissed at first, but i almost felt better after a little while. i came one step closer to knowing who my real friends are-and that is GREAT! :)
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I really admire your attitude. You seem very strong and unneffected by things people say. I wish I could be more this way...but I bet some things people said would really hurt my feelings. I don't know if I could resist that temptation to know...it would be good if you could do it for certain people only...
 
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