If she stabs them in the back, why would I expect different?

I have this friend, who I have loved, as family.
I have been a good friend to her.
I approach friendships thinking- be the friend I would want.....ya know?
Well, this girl, has been blowing me off the last few days- wrote me a nasty note saying I was being like a jealous high school bf when I asked a few times why she was ignoring me. At first I asked , or said 'I think you are avoiding me' jokingly- then it seemed she actually was which caught me off guard.....so I msged her on fb and asked her if and why she was......
I was sort of catty back and then the next day wrote and apologized for my rude response. and she hasn't responded. So a couple days went by, I called her today and she didn't answer.
She is OBVIOUSLY blowing me off but if I were to mention this, she would say I am paranoid or being immature.
I am sick and tired of people thinking they can treat me like some disposable friend. I do not want to be a friend of convenience.
That's annoying.
What is most annoying is she won't even tell me what her deal is. If I did something wrong, tell me.
If I didn't and you're having a shitty week, tell me. Don't be immature and play games and then accuse me of acting like I'm in high school.
I guess if she calls I will wait and see if she act
ually has good reason to be treating me this way.....Can't think of one but we will see.
I am just at the end of my rope with one sided relationships.
Be my friend or don't- but have the balls to be up front with me.

 

Some people just don't have the self-honesty or -awareness to be up front about stuff like that. After a while though, you have to question whether it's still worth it.

 

You are right.

 

how do u gets yer gifs to move like dat???...(..now u weren't expecting a serious answer eh?..lol)