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Relationships + Drugs I wasn't ready, I want another turn!!!!

RyGly76

RyGly76

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I'm hoping to get a few guys or gals that can relate. I have a best friend who I would lay down on railroad tracks for! I love and care about her more than any friend. Shes my Ex-wife of 9 years. I'll make this as brief as possible. We got together because she was middle man on dope deals for me (I was buying, not selling.) the physical attraction wore us down and, we'll you know!!
We decided to get married after a few months, and 9 years later it was a fucking disaster! For the last 2 years we've been spending time together and understand one another 100% better.
OK, the question... Anyone been a long term relationship/marriage, split up and after a long while and constructive time spent. Could we come back together? Not get married, just back together? Does it work? Well, I want another turn, wasn't ready!!!
 
I know you asked specifically for a certain demographic to answer this, specifically people that had been in long term relationships, split up, then come back together as friends. While I can't say that I've been in that exact situation, I'd have to say it depends on how wounded emotionally you guys were by the relationship, and how much effort you're BOTH willing to put in to bridge those gaps. It's not gonna be easy, and you both have to want to remain in each other's lives.
 
I was eight years with a guy and we separated because of circumstances that made living together impossible. That was six years ago.

Now we are good friends, even though we see each other only twice or three times a year. At some point he hinted at the idea of living together again, as friends. It's a funny relationship, because neither he nor I want to be with someone in a relationship. But still we both want to be together and share our lives with each other.

It's like we can't or don't want to move on
 
There's no blanket yes or no answer to this. Too many variables we do not know.

But of course it can work if you both want it to. Sometimes that time apart makes things clearer.

Usually the girl has moved on though.

I believe you only truely truely fall in love 1, 2 maybe 3 times max in your whole life. Not lust, love.
 
Hi everyone, I'm the girl!
To answer your question, we never did anything terrible to one another. We just got married too soon, if we should have at all. We don't hate each other, and in the months between when he first posted, and my post, we're even closer.
I can't imagine a better friend than him.
Then we got naked.
Like, really naked. We got more naked as soon as we were finished getting naked, then I dressed up in my best naked, and we stayed in and got naked.
Matter of fact; we were naked about 2 hours ago.
So... Yeah. We're having sex. And it's fucking incredible sex.
Jesus wept.
 
I'm going to follow up with a phrase I know he hates, but a wise man once said that "getting back together with an ex is like taking a shower and putting your dirty underwear back on".
 
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