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I want to impress my girl this weekend.

Pretty_Diamonds said:
A super nice expensive restaurant is always nice. Ordering a fancy meal and eating in a a romantic beach/park/pier (picnic).

BUT the real romance is when you MAKE the meal YOURSELF. YES! Check-in ASAP. Try to cook something homemade (no instant shit). Leave it in the oven or stove (obv. turn it off when you pick her up). Rose petals from the door to the bathroom to the bedroom. Meal all cooked, warm, and ready to be served (this is when you plate it and open her fav. whine)! Oh and also before you pick her up, fill the bathtub with SCOLDING HOT water and close the door so hopefully it's perfect temp for you guys after dinner. Oh and try to light some scent candles for scenery in the bathtub.
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This sounds super nice for the romantic type!
Flowers. Nice decor (like lights and stuff)
 
llama112 said:
This sounds super nice for the romantic type!
Flowers. Nice decor (like lights and stuff)
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No ones ever done it for me.. but a girl can dream! :P

I think it's cute when guys put forth effort vs opening up their pocketbook. Ya dig? Lol.

BUT if he busted out a victoria secret lingerie set--I would get pretty angry. Like...SEX. What? Now I have to run around wearing skimpy shit when I got all dressed up? I think lingerie presents should only be given when in a serious, committed relationship so he knows A) Your size B) your style C)how you feel about lingerie presents.
 
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Captain.Heroin said:
Be yourself.
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Yes. Be that wonderful guy that makes her love you. Then it doesn't even matter what you do. Just be in your presence and connecting with you/touching you will be enough. The most romantic situations are definitely those that make time and place disappear like that and only your existance and the interaction between you matter.

So that's something to keep in mind, but then again this is an emotional state that can't really be generated at will, and you might not be at that stage in your relationship (or ever been). Also, she might be expecting something specific, like an activity or gift from you.

It's really hard to satisfy a partner of the opposite sex. You never really know what they want and you won't always be in the same place. It happens most easily by accident or more impulsively. I guess that's also why you appreciate it so much when it does all come into place, as it's pretty rare. Sure, there's an art to romance, but it's more coincidal.
 
BUT if he busted out a victoria secret lingerie set--I would get pretty angry. Like...SEX. What? Now I have to run around wearing skimpy shit when I got all dressed up? I think lingerie presents should only be given when in a serious, committed relationship so he knows A) Your size B) your style C)how you feel about lingerie presents.
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Lol. I love lingerie. I'd totally go for that. But yeah, it'd have to be in a committed relationship and stuff. Not every woman wants that. Although, since I'm not much of a romantic, I'd definitely go for the lingerie :D
 
Pagey said:
It's really more romantic if he comes up with it on his own/if she's not expecting everything ;)
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Lol I'm more of a pragmatist. I must be the most unromantic woman ever! :D
 
LOng walk along a beach with a glass of wine or spirits she drinks that, followed by staring at the stars lying on a blanket (weather permitting) organize to have rose petals on the bed and give her a massage (don't rush it make it a decent one a womans body should be worshipped) can always use things like candles and soft music in the back ground to enchance the mood. I would also suggest try incorporating a nice sent like vanilla, lavender or even rose. Best of luck
 
You could cook her dinner. Chicks love that ime. Red wine has never failed me, ever.

I think Pagey had the right idea with a picnic in the park.

It already sounds like you are pulling out all the money with the hotels and restaurants so I really dunno.

I usually just talk to a woman for a bit on a date and make sure she has a good time then I dunno kiss her or show her my penis, just whatever vibe I am feeling.

I think the most fun a woman had on a date was when I took her target shooting. She was really girly girl and had never shot a gun. So yeah when we got to my place it was on.

I live a bit more frugal and well, I use my personality and whatnot. I think the most expensive date I have ever been on was to the movies which is something I do enjoy anyways, as long as its not along the lines of "bridgets jones diaries".

That shit is crucially expensive in 3D and well if the chick is not down to put some cans of soda in her purse I already know she is not my type of woman.

It sounds like this woman wants you to spend money which you probably have. I dunno put some fucking rosebuds all over the bed or some corny shit like that. Google is your friend. Maybe she just wants an 8 ball or some jewelery. Kinda sounds like a mug-you-rich type imho.

She might be impressed if you threw less money at her and just did something like make her dinner and take her on a romantic walk. Money does not buy love but it sure buys affection.
 
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